I've given both my kids all kinds of foods starting very early. Both of kids started solids fairly early (and continued to nurse like newborns at the same time!) and we haven't had anu issues that I am aware of. Proccessed foods definitely have a behavior reaction with ds, but I think that would be true of nay kid. He is allergic to red 40, but I certainly didn't give him red food coloring as a baby, so I don't think one has anthing to do with the other. I held off on eggs until 9 months with ds and 8 months with dd. I didn't do peanut butter with ds until 2 and probably will do the same with dd. Right now if I make pb&j sandwiches dd who is 9 months gets either cream cheese and jelly or soy "nut" butter and jelly. The ped told us that honey was fine for her....I was sure it wasn't but I give ds local honey every day during allergy season to keep his allergies down and I sometimes put a little in the kids' chamomile tea at bedtime. So she gets honey every once in a while.
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I just can't get it out of my head about the peanut butter thing. It just goes against every fiber of my beign to feed it to her. It might not be based in any reality, lol, but I just can't make myself feed peanut butter to a kid under 2!