Originally Posted by sunnysandiegan
First thing - I would focus on the family aspect, maybe include a family picture (all of you together in your area sometime) and write an affirmation or statement about how it is great to have three generations living in [name of town] together. Or a picture/affirmation depicting something specific you would like to do once they are living here.
Second thing - I'd say this is highly personal and will come to you once TM time starts. I've done both ways -- subtle, healthy, general and very specific with details -- and they've both worked.
This. I found it hard to not put things specifically about M (as opposed to M and me, or our relationship) on my map last year. I asked his permission regarding certain things, and he gave it freely, as he wasn't doing his own map. And I considered it "family" issues, as we're working towards being an intact family at some point (him, me, and my ds).
Some of those things are manifesting and while he didn't do his own map last year, he DID write one word that means the world to him on a sticky note, during TM time, and posted it on his cabinet, and it's still there, and THAT has manifested, thus far.
So, I think it's fine to put other people on there, as long as it's done properly-- I like sunny's idea of a photo of the whole family together in your area. I will have to get M to photoshop a pic of the three of us to put on mine! Great idea!
Weight loss. This is so weird. Because it was on all my maps so far. I think I've done four of them? I have had weight loss, Weight Watchers, lots of pix of healthy foods, all sorts of stuff like that-- and last year all I had in the "me" section in the middle was "I feel beautiful" and "I'm mahhvelous" or some such, things like that. NOTHING about weight loss. And this year I've lost 25-30lbs and intend to lose more, in the next couple months. I let it go and I manifested it. Not saying this is what will work for you, but I find it funny for me. Funny peculiar, not funny ha-ha.