I'm Jenny. I've been divorced for about 6 years and have a good working relationship with my ex. We have three boys aged 12, 10, and 7. Last fall I met a wonderful man in a town about 4 hours away. We got to know each other and fell in love, he spent some time with me and the boys and now the boys and I are moving next week to his lovely farm. As we are older and he's never had a child we decided to try right away and so now I'm also 6.5 weeks preggo. We've got great communication and we decided to do some couples counseling through the transition, we start on march 15. The boys are excited...well sad to leave friends but excited, DP likes hunting and fishing and they've bonded over that...and we are going from in town to a farm with lots of animals, yay! I've already gotten involved with the local church youth stuff, the local homeschool group, talked to 4-h....trying to hit the ground running as far as making friends and finding activities. I don't have any real issues with their dad. He was already long distance and will continue his once a month visits...he's fairly supportive.
I guess I'm just looking for support and maybe ideas for helping DP transition from a bachelor to a family man. We have done one 4 day and one 7 day trial-run visits. We are all excited and maybe a bit overwhelmed....esp with morning sickness and being a bit hormonal.... Thanks in advance.