So ex hasn't seen DD in two years. Whatever. He moved wayyy out of state, allegedly to be closer to where I plan on moving.
I'm taking a two week vacation to the city where I plan on moving to, in March. I informed him of this, and asked if he'd like to come there to visit DD when I'm there. He says no, I can come to him, and said that he offered to fly me out to his city and I refused. That never happened, but that's neither here nor there, right? I asked him what he'd like to do for visitation when I move this summer. No response yet.
My question is, how flexible do I really have to be? The location he moved to is "8 hours 22 minutes" (according to Google) from the city I'm moving to and vacationing in.