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post #21 of 158
Hey! We're home and guess what? I didn't get induced! I actually started having labor contractions on my own Tuesday! I'll post the labor details later.

Audrey Elizabeth
8 lbs. 6.5 oz
20 inches long
March 30th, 2004 7:38 pm
Dk brown hair
Blue Eyes

Kaylee
post #22 of 158



WOW KAYLEE- CONGRATULATIONS- CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR THE DETAILS...........
post #23 of 158
Thread Starter 

YEA Kaylee~~~
How super exciting and even better that you didnt have to be induced.. How wonderful! You were due right around there werent you... LIke the 1st? Well I cant wait to hear your story! Love the name Audrey btw!!
post #24 of 158
Woohoo!!! Congratulations!!!! Welcome Audrey!!
post #25 of 158
WELCOME TO THE WORLD, AUDREY!!! And my jaw dropped knowing that you weren't induced, Mrs. Edwards!!!! Rock on!!! Isn't the body amazing.

As for me, it's 4:30 am, and I can't sleep aaarrrrgh


full moon happening soon, I bet a bunch of us are going go for it...
post #26 of 158
Congratulations Kaylee-

Well everyone...I went into labor yesterday morning April 1 and no babies yet. I was very surprised and in denial all day. Felt like I was ready to push in the 5 o' clock hour but was still 8-9 cm. Midwives were here and babies heart tones stayed great throughout everything, but it isn't completely time yet. Everyone went home this morning and I'm at 9cm. Trying to rest and regain my strength incase this happens tonight or in the am. My little babies played an April Fool's Joke on me. The reason things seem to have slowed down is that the top baby isn't quite ready to make her appearance. She's moved several times in the last day so all of the laboring I did helped to line her up a little more. The bottom baby is completely engaged and hanging out in my largely dilated cervix. How fun for me.

I guess I'll have babies soon. Keep you posted! I'm 38 weeks today, BTW!
post #27 of 158
Welcome Audrey!!! Congratulations little one!




Just thought I would mention that I woke up at 5:30 am and cleaned out the microwave, swept the kitchen floor and cleaned the kitchen. That means it'll be another 2 weeks, heehee.
post #28 of 158
hi mama's. no baby yet... :

Welcome Audrey!!!

I have an odd question... Jacob has dropped, and now I have all this loose skin on my tummy. I had a dream that I want to the bathroom @ night a couple days ago and my water broke while I was on the tiolet... I don't think that it really did though. I've got pretty okay movements (though they've slowed down *a lot*) and I'm not leaking fluid that I can tell...
Is this normal? Like a week ago, my skin was stretched so tight I thought I'd burst, now I have loose skin all over my tummy... Has this happened to anyone else???

I thought for sure we were having and April Fool's baby, I'd have cx for a hours or so... then they'd quit. And now, no reg cx for 2 days... Had a bloody show 2 days ago, but no cx, nothing... And of course, show stopped that night.

My dad is coming for a visit tomorrow and only staying 3 days, I hope to have a baby to show in that time...

Hope all are well!
post #29 of 158
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mum2lillie~~ You will be having them babies very soon! How exciting for you and a bit frustrating huh.. But you get a big hug and pat on the back from me. Carrying twins to 38 weeks is amazing! Im 39 weeks now and I can not wait until my wee one comes... Having more contractions thent he week before.. they tend ot be a bit stronger and last longer.. But they arent anything to write home about KWIM.. Im tired of being wet down there all the time.. I hate that part.. UGH: Last night I ordered me a Boppy pilliow I finally found one I liked I also ordered some very cute Baby announcements.. I hope they get here before the 13th so I can fill them out while in the hospital.. They are so cute.. they look like little Luggage tags. Very cute!
I thought for sure some of us would have a april fools babies.. Guess the jokes were on us huh! Oh I can imagin some of the March mama's a little jelious that we have had what 3 or 4 mamas that have babies that were due April and came in March!!I think there is still a few march mamas floating around. Well gotta alot of chores to get done today gonna be out and about all day today.. Its all crappy and rainy too. But we need the rain.. Talk to you mamas later
post #30 of 158
hey kendall ~ frustrating times, huh! I can only imagine how hard it must be to have to wait when you're that far into it. come on out babies!!
post #31 of 158
Congratulations Kaylee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mum2lillie: I can't believe everyone left at 9cm!!!!!!! Wow, like any minute you'll have those babies in your arms, awesome!!!

tibdomol: Never heard of LOOSE skin before birthing, even with the dropping??: I had the bloody show too, was SOOO excited, and now nothing again! It IS frustrating isn't it??

Yesterday before DH left for work I said I know it's april fools day, but I PROMISE I won't april fools you about the baby! If I call it's for real!!! I did have a spell in the afternoon that I though might go somewhere, but no:

I can't remember if I mentioned it, but DS's birthday is Tuesday the 6th. The full moon is the 5th, if I go into labor on the 5th I'd probably deliver on the 6th-the ONLY day I DON"T want to have the baby! So I probably will huh??

Does anyone have kids with birthday's very close together (day wise). That's another reason I REALLY wanted to have the baby in March, I know it sounds silly but I just wanted the baby to have a "separate" birthday. I don't want the kids to grow up having joint party's. I'm such a HUGE birthday celebrater. I LOVE everyone to have "their" special day, and having a sibling that close togehter can overshadow it, KWIM?? Or is this just too silly?

Later!
post #32 of 158
Kendall, heres sending you positive labor vibes. It cannot be too much longer now. You are so awesome taking care to keep those two in ya!!!!!!!!!!!!

Keep up the good vibes, everyone-
My love 2 all- Maria
post #33 of 158
I know this seems like a weird question, but is anybody *not* excited about labor? I just can't seem to get jumped about all this. This is our last baby, so maybe that's why....and sometimes I don't feel like there's enough of me to go around as it is.

Plus, I'm remembering how painful it is!
post #34 of 158
Here's our birth story:

At 2:50 am on 3/30/04, I woke up thinking my water was leaking. Several incidents occurred throughout the morning, so I decided to go to the dr. to get checked out. I weighed in at 145 lbs. I was given an exam which indicated that my water was not leaking but instead I had a lot of mucous. Imagine my surprise when I was told I was 4-5 cm and 70% effaced. I was terrified at this point that I would go home, my water might break and I might deliver in the car. My dr. said she could send me to the hospital that day and break my water or I could come in the morning. After a very emotional/tearful discussion because I just didn’t want to be induced we decided I’d be induced in the morning allowing us to clean house, make arrangements for Amber and Genevieve.

Well at home I started having labor contractions and I was pretty sure these were labor contractions. I timed them the best I could, got Genevieve down for a nap, called Matt, and took a shower. When Matt got home, he took Amber to be boarded, and picked us up some Taco Bell for us to eat. After we ate, we woke up Genevieve and headed to the hospital.

We arrived about 4:15 pm. Got to the labor/delivery room at 4:30 pm. At 5:10 pm, I was checked and was 5 cm and at that point my dr. broke my water. The anesthesia people were all ready in the room waiting for the dr. to break my water. And, of course they had preliminary questions to ask me. My doctor went over there and answered on my behalf. It was so funny. She looked at the girl and said “I’m very thorough”. She knew that I wanted that epidural and there was no time for chit chat. Once my water was broken, my epidural was placed at 5:32 pm. I allowed a student to place my epidural (it wasn’t her first!). I was still feeling my contractions for awhile so the nurse called them and had the anesthesia team come back for more meds. This time it worked. I’d say from the time they did the preliminary questions till the time I actually felt no pain; the whole process took about an hour.

Matt went to get something to eat, and while he was gone the nurse checked me and I was at 7 cm! So fast! I was so glad because I wasn’t going to need pitocin. The nurse said she was going to page the dr. to come back. I called Matt and told him to hurry back because we would be ready soon. At this point I was starting to feel really tired and really sick. I felt so tired that I thought they’d given me stadol or something like it in my IV. But, the nurse told me I hadn’t been given anything. My dr. arrived and checked me and I was ready, fully effaced and fully dilated. But, commented that we needed a daddy present before any pushing could happen. She said she was going to change into scrubs and left the room. Matt came in and they got me set up to do the pre-pushing I only did 2 sets with the nurse and Matt. They got me into the stirrups, and this is when I started feeling very nauseous. I asked if I could sit up and the nurse said it was too late for that and that if I got ill, I’d just have to turn my head. Well, my taco bell came back, but once I was done with the nausea, I got all of my energy back. I was no longer tired or nauseous…I felt great now.

The dr. came back and we started pushing around 7:25 pm. The dr. asked me if I wanted to see her hair with the aid of the mirror. I was reluctant at first, but decided to look one time. I saw lots of dark hair and then I asked them to take the mirror away. I only pushed through 3 contractions. Had two hard pushes I had to do and the rest were very slow soft pushes. @ 7:38 pm Audrey Elizabeth Edwards arrived into my arms. They laid her on my chest and what a beauty she was! She wasn’t swollen at all, but she had some fat cheeks! They let me hold her pretty much the entire time all the post labor stuff was going on. I did tear on my existing scar tissue (something pretty unavoidable since I had two different scar tissues from my delivery with Genevieve and then from my vaginal surgery). But, no vacuum extractor or forceps were used. Matt got to cut the cord (something that he didn’t get to do with Genevieve). Overall, this birth experience was so wonderful compared to my first. I’m truly blessed with the wonderful doctor, and hospital, and medical staff I had this time.

As for post partum, my vaginal swelling has been at a minimum. And, no hemorrhoids this time! I feel so incredibly different and am looking forward to actually getting to enjoy taking care of a newborn.

Breastfeeding is going great at the moment. Audrey is a great nurser. She doesn’t fall asleep at the breast and willingly wants to nurse. I think her latch is good, but I do think I’m having some readjustment to using my breasts this way, but I think things are working out really well at this point. She’s such a great nurser that my milk came in and I’ve hardly even noticed.

We’ve started cloth diapering her, even though I had intended on waiting until the meconium passed and her umbilical cord fell off, but I just couldn’t resist getting those cute little cloth diapers on her bottom!

Genevieve was very interested in Audrey. She’d greet her saying “Hi Baby!” and would wave to her, kiss her, hug her. But, since arriving home from the hospital, she’s definitely having some conflicting feelings. She likes Audrey, but is really whiny and hysterical acting at times. She acts mad at me…even when Audrey isn’t present. Today when we got in the car to take Genevieve to MDO, she just looked at Audrey the entire car ride and cried. I’m not sure if it was because she couldn’t touch her at the time or what, but I’m sure we’ll have our hands full these next few weeks getting adjusted.
post #35 of 158
Thread Starter 
kaylee your birth story sounds wonderful! What a way to do it. Get in there and get right to work No waiting around.. You go girl! Audrey sounds beautiful I can not wait to see pictures of her.. Im so excited for you...
Maria~ I sent that box out today.. They said 2-3 days... YEA~~~
Having more contractions today myself.. I go to my last dr appointment on the 6th.. SO we will see if anything is going on down there.. Not like I think there is .. But ya know anything can happen.. Went grocery shopping today thats why i think i am contracting.. But who knows:
Still no word from LIsa.. I hope she is ok.. I would think she would be home from the hospital by now. We havent heard from her since before Kaylee went in the hospital.. Where are you Lisa!! Well gotta go eat some lunch! Birthing vibes mamas..
post #36 of 158
Bellafinn--just wanted to mention that my bday is 4/21, my dad's is 4/24, and my brother's is 4/28 (all within a week) and we NEVER had combined parties that I can recall! Everybody had their special day and dinner or whatever. Since mine is the first of the 3 maybe I have a skewed perspective but it never seemed to be a big problem.

BTW, dh's birthday is 4/16 and I'm due 4/18....jeeeeez...
post #37 of 158
congrats mrs. edwards!!!! welcome audrey

cicerosum- I know what you mean about not being totally excited. maybe because Im a first timer....I dont know what to expect, and then the fear of the difference between my fantasy and how the reality will be? I dont like the anxiety of waiting but I dont really want to go- Ive always been like that with things like oral presentations etc. Maybe Ill be happy when it starts...

bellafin-ditto on the blood on tp issue:LOL

I guess thats all from here- 40 weeks 2 days
post #38 of 158

He's Here!!!!!!

Hiya, everyone, sorry I haven't been around, but, hey, I was out there delivering a baby!!!!

Tuesday, at midnight, Mac woke me up and asked me if I was okay.... Aparently, I was whimpering in my sleep. I then went back to sleep, but woke up at 4AM (that seemed to be my time!) and was having repeated contractions. I waited untill 6 AM, told Mac we had to go (but I thought it was another false alarm). We went into Labor and Delivery where they monitored me and said my contrax were 3-5 min apart and very regular. They did an internal exam and noted I was 75% effaced (which was a change from 50% effaced).
The doctor, Dr Christine De La Garza (SHE ROCKS!) said she wanted to monitor me a bit longer. At this point, I sent Mac to work 'cause it seemed like we would just go on home later on that day....I was monitored for about 3 more hours (till about 1045AM) and then the nurse checked me again. I had dialated to 1 cm.

Since I had already had 2 c-sections, Dr De La Garza was concerned because I was also having sharp pains where my scar was located. She explained the risks of having a baby at 36 weeks (possible NICU hospitalization, etc.) we decided to go on ahead with the c-section.

I called my dad first and let him know. Then, I called Mac to let him know about what time the section would take place. In fact, I called everyone who I wanted to know...and let them know!!! :LOL

I was prepped, then I was given a spinal block/epidural combination. The anesthesiologist was fabulous. When I started panicking that I couldn't catch my breath, he said, "I can give you oxygen... Is that acceptable to you?" I told him yes and he put the prongs in my nose. It was not uncomfortable at all. In fact, about 5 seconds afterwards, I felt perfectly fine. I was lucid (my other c-sections I wasn't), I was confident, and ready to go. I was asking question after question to everyone and they would answer me with as much details as possible.

During the c-section, Mac gave me a running commentary of what was going on. I asked him what it looked like, what they were doing, how were they doing it... We talked about a ton of different things and they let me know they were getting ready to deliver Adam. The minute they pulled him out, he just wailed and hollered and was generally pissed off. That made me feel great because that meant he was breathing well.

He is GORGEOUS. He has white blond hair, eyelashes, and eyebrows. You can tell he is of Scandinavian descent. Adam weighed in at 7lbs 1oz, and was born at 221PM on March 30, 2004. He is 18 1/4 in long.

While the Docs finished up (I also had a tubal ligation...no more for us!), Mac held Adam and we fell madly in love with him. I was moved into recovery and I was wide awake. I got to carry Adam into the recovery room and hold him and try to nurse him. He wasn't very interested. The nursery came to do their assessment and noted that Adam was grunting (a common problem in c-section babies) and decided to move him into the transition nursery which is located in the NICU.

I spent the whole time in recovery twiddling my thumbs and just psyched! Mac went back to work 'cause, really, there was no reason for him to be there... Nothing going on! :LOL After the recovery room, they moved me upstairs.

My mom, dad, and Connor (my oldest) came to visit... At this time, I found out some bad news. Adam was having mild respiratory distress, so he was admitted to the NICU. They then told me they were doing a blood culture on Adam to see if he had an infection...It turns out, he did (at this time, the labs say so. They did repeat labs and tomorrow morning I find out if he really does or not....). So, unfortunately, Adam has to stay in the NICU. He may come home on Sunday, or, more likely, next Friday.

I just got home today and I will say that I am so glad we had Adam when we did. Apparently, my scar was so thin, it was transparent. I could've ruptured at any time. What a relief!

Adam is one heck of a nurser and loves to snuggle. The NICU nurses let me nurse him on demand when I'm there, not ever worrying about their schedule. The lactation consultants helped me with getting a breast pump and figuring out how much time I should spend in the NICU vs. getting rest for myself.

Today, I spent most of the day with Adam, snuggling, nursing, cuddling, all the things I love to do. It was so hard leaving him... But I know it's really for the best and he'll be home soon... Then we'll party!!!

I hope this isn't too rambling, I'm on painkillers for my incision. I really had a fantastic delivery and an up and down time afterwards. I just remind myself that I at least know Adam will be coming home in a week, worst case scenario. Period. With my twins, I had no idea when they would get out of the NICU.

So, that's where I've been for the last 4 days!

Adam Rayvin Messick
March 30, 2004, 2:21 P.M., CST
San Antonio, Texas
7 lbs. 1 oz., 18 1/4 inches long
(He's my biggest baby!)
Blond hair, newborn grey eyes.
Beautiful fella....
post #39 of 158
YAY Lisa and Adam!!!!!!!!!!

i admire how calm you can be with your little guy in NICU. mine was in for 3 days just to clear excess fluid from his lungs, and i was struggling so hard to deal. i would just fall apart when i wasn't with him! you are a strong mama (but we knew that already..)

CONGRATS!
post #40 of 158
Thanks, Jen, but, believe me, I have lost it more times in the last few days than I've lost it all pregnancy. I just about went ballistic this morning when the nurse told me she had fed Adam right before I got there. Apparently, there was a miscommunication from the night nurse. The rest of the day, Adam was my buddy, just hangin' around on my chest and nursing when he felt like it. I have to say, those nurses are rockin' because they usually don't do that. They have a rigid schedule because they are taking care of some very critical babies... Adam is not critical at all, just a possible infection.... But yet, they would call me up in my room if Adam was acting hungry....They totally let me nurse on demand. I all of them. They are truly pro breastfeeding.
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