I am very shaky right now. My husband who I split from about a month ago is falling apart and I feel bad for him. It was completely my call on the spliting up and he wants to move back and be with me and the kids. He came today to get more stuff and the whole time was pressuring me about trying again and working things out. He asked for a timeline of when he thought we could go on a date and talk. He asks if we can seek counseling (we could never afford it and i'm not up for that, I dont think it will help our problems) he wants me to make a list of what he needs to change. Basically, he is saying he will do whatever it takes to be back with me. he says he "knows" I feel the same and deep down I still love him and want to be back with him...well I don't feel that way. I am still very sure of my decision but when he does this I start doubting myself and get feeling...well...shaky I guess is the best word to describe it!
So I guess i'm just looking for support, has anyone else gone through a seperation/divorce like this with the other party being so desperate to get back together and leaving you feeling like you could be wrong?