I use Dove Sensitive soap. I've tried TONS of other more natural soaps, but they all dry my skin out way too much, or they make me break out in hives (I have SUPER sensitive skin). I use just plain water on my face, though.
I use Alba lotion after every shower, and it's great! I tried using oils, and my skin just doesn't like it at all. You can buy a GIANT bottle of Alba lotion for $12 at Whole Foods, and it keeps my skin so soft, better than it has ever been before. I use the original version in the green bottle. I tried the maximum dry skin formula, but it was very greasy and never soaked in all the way. I also use the Alba Aloe and Green Tea face moisturizer, and it's the best I've ever used. I've tried tons of face moisturizers before, and this soaks right in and doesn't leave an oily residue, and my face just feels soft and clean.
(I realize I sound like a commercial...sorry! lol I just LOVE Alba products!)