Heather, oh I hear you! It's tough making family decisions. My DH dragged his feet regarding biological children and now our options are a lot more limited today than they were 5 years ago. He was fine with fostering and adoption, but we don't always see eye-to-eye. Fostering is really tough for anyone. It can be really hard on a couple. I caution you to make sure you both go into this with open eyes.