I guess we all are fumbling a bit Learning to help my son has been such a process (as you all know from your own experiences). I am still learning to trust my own instincts and knowledge and ability to do my own research. Sometimes I just wish someone would tell me what to do but that does not exist. Even if they do, I am inclined to question everything anyway! Anyway... I started myself and ds this morning on the clay. We are taking the hydrated bentonite clay. I gave him 1/4t in morning and 1/4 just now (mid afternoon) will probably give another 1/4 t tonight. He hasn't pooped in a few days so is due to go tonight. He has been so gassy and miserable I am hoping this will clear up in the next couple of days. I am following the same schedule but started with 1/2 t. We will increase gradually as long as we both tolerate. He is super sensitive too so I am inclined to go very slowly and realize that the amount of clay in the 1/4t of hydrated clay is minimal. I think I will try to get an appt with our chiro and muscle test him for strains of probiotic. Then I can make a guided decision on which probiotic to order. I am looking forward to going through this journey with all of you.