My ds is 17 months old, and I parent him to sleep for naps. Dd is 4 years old, and hasn't napped regularly for at least 6 months. Sometimes I am able to get ds down for a nap just fine, and other times, like today, what should take 15 minutes takes almost an hour and a lot more misery for everyone in the house because dd wouldn't be quiet and leave us alone while I put him down. I get so angry I wind up yelling and resenting my 4yo.
If you parent a young one down for naps and have an older child, how do you deal with it?