I wasn't sure where to put this, but I could really use some advice! This is a really silly question, but this is our first baby and thus our first midwife, so we weren't really sure if it was appropriate to invite her to our wedding in April or not. I'm only four months so I've only seen her about 3 times so far, I like her a lot and she's really nice but I don't know her very well yet. I wasn't sure if I should invite her or not, and if I invited her I wasn't sure if she would be weirded out by it because she doesn't know me too well.
Do you think it's appropriate to invite her? Both my fiance and myself have Asperger's, so we're kind of lost with this whole wedding- especially with the guest list. Most of the people coming are either our family members or our parent's friends, so we really haven't the slightest clue on who it's okay to invite and who we shouldn't! I asked my mom what she thought and she said that she would never invite her doctor to her wedding- but midwives are totally different so I don't know if it would be acceptable or even expected to invite her.
Sorry, I know this is a really silly question but I really have no idea and don't want to offend her/make her uncomfortable by either inviting her or not inviting her!