I'm tandem nursing DD1 (almost 2 1/2) and DD2 (12 months), and just found out I am pregnant again. I wouldn't mind if DD1 stopped before the new baby arrives, but I doubt that she will. Nursing is very, very important to her. Between the newly pregnant sensitivity and her having a cold (her latch must change a bit), it's been a bit uncomfortable, but the cold is on it's way out, so we should be okay again in a few days. I have been completely fine with DD2, but she has always had a more gentle latch/suck. Hopefully, I'll get to stick around with this group; 2 miscarriages and an ectopic (all before my girls) have made me wary of the first few weeks, but I wanted to chime in to encourage those who are nursing and are or are considering tandem nursing. I'm really glad I stuck with it, and I agree that cutting out the most painful/difficult sessions and using some sort of distraction for the rest is crucial to maintaining the relationship as a whole.
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