I posted an update and a link to my blog last month and then crazy happened and I had to move it. New blog is www.lastmom.blogspot.com.
My girl is 10 and our one year anniversary of her moving in is coming up in May. We got the best surprise in the mail from the state of Texas not too long ago: a giant photo of her from when she first became eligible for adoption (entered the system at age 4 and was 5 when TPR happened). It must have been used to promote foster adoption. We re-framed it and have it hanging up. Other than 1 photo of her her at age 3 during the initial investigation, it's the closest thing to a baby picture she has. Some former foster moms sent us photos of her from her first couple years in the system.
Thank you to all you foster moms that take photos!