Brite: I too thank you for clarifying. I think with all that was going on with me, I might have picked up that you had earlier losses but I forgot. Honestly, you've been through it, girl and I know everything little piece of information (or advice) is challenging in the TTC process. Only you, know YOU best. And only you, know your DP best.
I didn't get whether you have done any type of testing or possible determination for your four previous losses. I know Imani Joi was a different process, but what about those 4 previous losses? So knowing all that about you and what has happened for you and DP, does it make more sense why she might have asked you the question? Regardless, I know it can still hurt to think it's YOU that's the problem. The bottom line, sweetie, we've all got a lot of factors working against us. From environment, to genetics, we have a challenge. And to top it off, did you know that the human species is the most difficult species to get preganant? WTF, I say!!! So for all the challenges you experience, none of them change what a beautiful and wonderful person you are to want to be a mom and how you were a mom for Imani Joi. I wish I had the magic 8 ball or crystal ball to tell you what path you will take to be a mom, but deep down, I know all of us here WILL be moms.
PS Thanks to all since calling me out in personals. It just really helps in the healing process to know people are there and thinking about you. Bleeding and cramping is minimal, now the clock starts ticking once more. Higher Power, give me the strength to move the mountains you have placed before me!