Kelly: I'm all for ditching Kaiser. Once I read Brill's book and we got KDs, we just used them for the ultrasound at CD14 (or so) to determine follie count and lining. I used them for medications but that's it.
I got pregnant on a natural cycle with a crazy, stressed out life. Granted, it's turned out to be a blighted ovum but that's because something was chromosomally wrong, not because I have a stressed out, crazy life. Wouldn't it be great if we could lay around and eat bon bons all day and relax our bodies in preparation for conception? Not! We'd all be struggling to pay the bills. The best we can do for ourselves is take care of ourselves but realize we can't do it perfectly. There are tons of women who have crazy f-up lives who get pregnant on a regular basis. In conclusion, conception is still a mystery to all and there's not a whole heck of a lot we can do.
AFM: I'm waiting to miscarry. Right now, it's extremely emotionally painful. I haven't gotten to the physically painful part yet.