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Hi ladies!  Just popping in to let you know that we are indeed back in our house, which is both heated and well-lit.  smile.gif  The power finally came back on last Thursday, so the outage lasted four nights.  Our neighborhood was literally the last in Toledo to have power restored.  One of my best friends flew in for a visit on Thursday night, so they got it on just in time.

 

Between work and visitors (we've had a steady stream of them this month, with another coming next week) I haven't had much time to post, but I am reading along.  

 

I'm so not excited about TTC this cycle.  The disappointment just about killed me last month (well, that's a bit hyperbolic, but you know what I mean).  I feel like a teenager with a bad attitude.  I've been waking up and just glaring at my thermometer instead of using it, so I guess we're relying on OPKs this month.  I don't even know what cycle day I'm on - I should probably check that once I'm done here.

 

Bootsie, the thread looks sah-weet!  I absolutely love the title.  Hang in there - spring break is right around the corner.

 

Ramzubo, congrats!

 

Taxi, I hope your doctor's appointment goes well!  Boots is right about your grace under pressure.  I really do think it's your turn.  I'm sending some serious "BFP for Taxlady" vibes out into the universe.

 

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LivingSky – I really like the name Dell, too – I know a really cool guy named Dell.  He’s a cop in a small town, and recently saved someone from a burning building.  So very good name.  I’ve also had bad experiences with Ben's (and Bennett’s too), so that one would be out for me.  It stinks when people mess up a name like that! 

 

Taxlady – I was checking out your chart, and I’m wondering what tomorrow’s temp will bring… if it’s higher, I could see you getting crosshairs on CD16.  I don’t think you could have messed up the temping… as long as you are taking it about the same time under similar circumstances, you’re doing great.  I’m going to be chart-stalking to see when you get the crosshairs.  Also, I’m interested to hear how your appointment goes!  At least you’ll come out of it better informed… and as I’ve said before, knowledge is power! 

 

Hi Phantom, and welcome to the group!! 

 

Ramzubo – I agree with telling your mom and sis when they come to visit.  I was worried about telling my dad, too, because keeping secrets is not his strong point!  He’s never met a stranger, and he’ll tell everything he knows.  I explained my reasons for keeping it quiet, and as far as I can tell, he’s succeeded.  Luckily he only has another week and a half to go.  But I think it would be good to tell your family in person, so you can see their reaction – so much better than on the phone!   Oh, and my MIL is also from overseas, so when she comes it is for a while – that’s why she’s here for the month.  She’s already been in Seattle visiting family for a month.  I think it’s difficult on all of us, but we only see her about every two years, so we want to keep her around for as long as possible.  Especially now with all the turmoil going on overseas. 

 

Rush2ady – Thanks for the coconut oil tip!  We may have to give it a try.  She’s home from the doctor, but I haven’t talked to DH yet so I’m not sure what’s going on.  I know they took a lot of blood, though, so hopefully they’ll find something fixable. 

 

Cristini – Yes, she knows I’m preggers.  I think she just didn’t see the meat on the knife.  DH and I have shown her around the kitchen (more DH than me… there’s a slight language barrier for us), I think she just doesn’t remember stuff.  She can’t find her bedroom, so I guess I can’t expect her to find a ziplock bag.  J  I love your happy-butt dance, by the way. 

 

Tank – Do you think the getting into the trash is her way of acting out about your being pregnant?  I have friends with dogs that have had issues with chewed up stuff and peeing on stuff if the dog is upset about anything.  I have cats – they seem to be oblivious about everything. 

 

Caly – Glad you are back in the house!!!  Have fun with all your house guests.  I completely get the apathy about the TTC stuff… I think we’ve all been there before.  Sometimes the most apathetic months are the most successful!  I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you!

 

AFM – Things have improved with MIL, mainly because she didn’t cook today, and has been out at the doctor for a good part of the day.  I won’t know what’s going on with the doctor until DH gets home from work.  Plus, while she was out I was able to do some heavy duty cleaning without worrying about offending her by cleaning up after her.  I know I have some control issues with house cleanliness – it was an issue when I had roommates too – luckily DH is nearly as OCD as me, so it works well.  Thanks for letting me vent here!  I think once we all get adjusted, everything will be fine.  Anyway, I’m off to cook a fantastic vegetarian pizza I love and have been craving.  I like to tell myself it’s healthy – it has broccoli, olives, and carrots, so it has to be healthy, right? 

 

 

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Thanks for the reassurance, Val.  I'm just really frustrated - I know you understand!  I'm glad things are improving with your MIL.  It's always hard to share a space with people whose habits differ from your own, especially in-laws.  orngtongue.gif  Your pizza sounds delicious! 

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Welcome Phantom!  I hope you will love it here and your stay is short and sweet!

 

Just a few quick things from what I remember...

 

Cal, glad your power is back on!  Must be a huge relief.  I hear ya on feeling like a grumpy teen.  I am feeling the same way this cycle too.

 

Val, the meat on the knife is just gross, but like others said, perhaps she didn't notice.  I just don't like others to be in my kitchen, as I have exacting standards.  So I understand.  And as a vegetarian, I understand.  Enjoy your pizza!  I love broccoli and carrots on my pizza.  And pineapple.

 

Congrats Livingsky on the BOY!

 

Oh, Bootsie, I love the name of thread and the purty colors.

 

Taxi, I hope your doctor's appointment provides you with tons of information and reassurance.

 

Hello to all my other friends, I hope you are all having wonderful weeks!

 

AFM, I BD'd, I O'd, and now I wait.

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CALY CALY CALY!  SO glad you're back!!  I missed you!  SO glad you are warm again and wow!  lots of guests to keep you company.  I would also like to point out that both Hykue and Valh were "totally" not feeling it the months they got their BFP's!!  Thanks for sending me the sticky baby vibes - that's so awesome, but save some for you.  YOU DESERVE IT TOO!!  dust.gif

 

There are a few others that I am missing.. you know who you are and if you're reading.. please just pop in and let me know you're healthy and happy.  goodvibes.gif

 

Valh.. got the crosshairs, had to discard the Monday temp, that had to be fluke.  I'll take it!!  I just needed to see those crosshairs - they're reassuring.  You are a very very good daughter in law!  I hope your MIL is ok and I think she understands for sure that she's visiting in your house.  It is hard to visit people, you don't want to step on toes, but you also want to enjoy every minute because, like you said visits are sort of long in between.  Have you ever been to Egypt?  Veggie pizza is very healthy.. I mean, pizza covers all the basis like a well rounded meal.  You have your carbs, your greens, your dairy and protein.  It's only 6 am and I am ready for lunch now. eat.gif Also, if she raised DH and he's a little OCD then she already knows that you guys like things neat and tidy.  Don't worry, I really do think you are a great DIL.  And I loved your pictures.. I'm going to find some too, but I have to do them from a different computer.

 

Hykue, I've been meaning to ask you, if you want to share, what does your DH do that he's away all summer?  We have some friends from down under that moved to Canada, Ft. McMurray (I think) that worked the oil business.  There is a lot of controversy I hear about with that in America, but the news is always so skewed around here.  I'm also wondering if I should order any infertility drugs from Canada..shrug.gif they have much fairer prices.  I have always loved sheep wool.gif Do yours do that??  I'm into roosters now.. do you have any of those.  Livingsky do you?

 

Welcome Phantom..flowersforyou.gif I hear you on having some problems, but there has been great success here, so hopefully joining is all you need.  GOOD LUCK!!  

 

Birdie.. we wait.. we wait.  You O'd!  Now we sit and wait.. I'm with you.  whistling.gif  Also, I forgot to mention, I think is sort of funny that you are Birdie.Bee on the other site (I'm not a knitter) because I sometimes call you birdie.bee and it reminds me of Birds and Bees.. how we were taught in school.  lol.gif

 

Tank, I know your dog knows you are pregnant.  SO FUN.. I think the actions are protective.  So sweet.  I hope you are feeling good good good. love.gif

 

SO Livingsky.. I think "Dell Livingsky Last name" is PERFECT.. all in favor??  Don't you ever leave this post.. well, at least while I'm still here.  winky.gif

 

Cristini - I know they will do an ultrasound on Monday.  I think to see if I ovulated and where (my right side I can already tell you now).. and I'll get a lot more information.  I know there is some bed rest involved after any transfer - so I already know that the timing for that will need to be after April 15th.  So we may have to wait one more month.. but that's ok.. I have to take this at my own pace.  AS FAR AS NOT POOPING.. oh my.. I hope you're feeing ok.  Maybe it's because you caught the egg and you're body transfered it's other processes to helping you grow a baby?  I can wish and hope and keep my fingers crossed!! fingersx.gif I'll be stalking your chart bigeyes.gif

 

Boots.. it's Friday.. SCHOOLS OUT FOR SPRING BREAK!!  AWESOME!!  Plus, you did an great job on the thread.. it's wonderful.  So organized, no wonder you're burnt, if you treat your teaching like you do this thread.. then my suspicion is confirmed that you are a A+ teacher too!! thumb.gif  Thank goodness I know a few of our next generation are getting a good education. bow2.gif

 

Rush - happy friday.. just wanted to give you a shout out. blowkiss.gif

Ram - You'll figure out just what to do, I agree you can't keep it from them and they'll want to share the joy with you.  How fun to be with your mom and sister and get all excited about your new little one.  energy.gif

 

AFM:  ON my way to work, got my 40 hours in this week yesterday, so now the next two days are the gravy o.t... thumbsup.gif P.S. it's really nice to wake up and get such nice compliments.. each time you all send me one, my heart fills.. seriously.. what a neat group of ladies.  Who was it that said they still have friends from their destination wedding blog?  I hope that I can remain friends with you all.. this has truly been a blessing.  stillheart.gif

 

Which then leads me again into.. missing a few of you that haven't posted in a while.  SHELLHAWK - where's your funnyness??

 

 

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Tank, my dog has been doing the SAME thing!!! He'll be 3 next month, and never, ever went through the trash before, but has done it twice in the past 3 weeks. My DH leaves the house two hours after me, and I get home two hours before him, so the dog is only alone for about 6 hours. He's got balls full of treats, a basket full of toys and tons of nice fluffy places to nap. Sounds like the life to me!! Why does he feel the need to go through the trashes in the house? Grrrr....Maybe your pup is acting out because she knows you're preggo?

 


 

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welcome happyphantom! 

Val I am vegetarian so I sympathize with you.  I had to deal with stuff like that back when I had roommates.  But vegetarian or not, meat left on dishes is disgusting and unsanitary.

Ramzubo I would just tell her.  If she had miscarriages herself hopefully she would know enough the importance of keeping it to herself and understanding that is it still early and something can go wrong.  Plus if the worst does happen it is nice to have people you can talk to about it. 

Cristinimartini I hadn't even thought about how all these names I have picked out would go with a last name.  Actually we haven't even decided on a last name yet.  We aren't married yet and haven't decided what we are going to do for a last name anyway.  We will either have my last name or he will change his last name to his grandmother's last name and that will be our last name.  His last name right now is his fathers name which wasn't in his life at all, his grandmother raised him.  She offered him her last name when he was a teenager but he denied because he was a stubborn teenager and now regrets it.  So it is sort of complicated.  The babies name will either be REALLY german or REALLY italian sounding. 

AFM  same old same old.  I actually really want to smack my dog upside the head.  She is driving me nuts!  I left today for an hour to drive DP to work and she had gotten into the trash and spread it all over my bedroom for the 2nd day in a row.  She never used to do that and she is 3 years old.  This is a relatively new activity.  I don't even know what to do about it.  Everytime it happens we do more and more things to make it an obsticle to get to the trash but she still gets it.  I wish I didn't have such a smart dog.  She has also been really needy with me which has led me to leave her home more instead of having her at work with me so maybe that's why she is acting out.  I am pretty sure she can sence that I am pregnant and wants to be on top of me 24/7.



 

Birdie, I love your statement. I BD'd, I O'd, now I wait. That should be a team t-shirt to wear during the TWW.

 

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Welcome Phantom!  I hope you will love it here and your stay is short and sweet!

 

Just a few quick things from what I remember...

 

Cal, glad your power is back on!  Must be a huge relief.  I hear ya on feeling like a grumpy teen.  I am feeling the same way this cycle too.

 

Val, the meat on the knife is just gross, but like others said, perhaps she didn't notice.  I just don't like others to be in my kitchen, as I have exacting standards.  So I understand.  And as a vegetarian, I understand.  Enjoy your pizza!  I love broccoli and carrots on my pizza.  And pineapple.

 

Congrats Livingsky on the BOY!

 

Oh, Bootsie, I love the name of thread and the purty colors.

 

Taxi, I hope your doctor's appointment provides you with tons of information and reassurance.

 

Hello to all my other friends, I hope you are all having wonderful weeks!

 

AFM, I BD'd, I O'd, and now I wait.


Cal, I'm glad to hear your power turned back on!! And you enjoyed your time with your company! I find that I need distractions otherwise I get very depressed over TTC. I think about it with every meal choice, when I go to bed, when I wake up. I know that glare at the thermometer all too well. My OPKs this month were positive for 4 days, so I think I would have totally missed my actual O date if I wasn't temping. Last night DH asked me if I was still temping and I said "yeah, but it doesn't matter" and he goes "then why do it?", so I had to explain to him that it only matters to confirm that you've ovulated and after that it didn't really mean much. After saying those words out loud, I really thought to myself "Why AM I temping?" and then I realized it's to complete the information on the chart. I'm too anal to have something half finished. I really wish my dog would break my thermometer so I would have no excuse to keep temping. It's really messing with me.

 

AFM, my chart looks like it's turning into a combination of my first two charts. I put my thermometer away this morning. I'm done temping until after my period is over next cycle. I'll temp for the next 7 days or so (since I apparently O between CD 12-14) and then stop when I see my shift. I hate waking up every day to a number that makes me sad, confused, worried, etc. I feel like it starts out my morning with a cloud over my head. I want TTC to be a happy and exciting time and right now it's not.

 

I hope everyone is enjoying their Friday and looking forward to a fun-filled and/or relaxed weekend!
 

 

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Val - I'm far far far from OCD about cleanliness (I'm clean but not OCD) and that would bother me. Both the cleanliness issue and the disrespectful combining of meat and vege. That being said, my mother, who tried ever so hard, never ever ever understood my vegetarianism (I am not now, but was for a long time), and repeatedly thought that chicken stock was just fine to use. Some people just don't get it, despite their goodwill and best intentions. Hang in there!

 

Cristini - yay for putting the thermo down. You've been gearing up to do so for a while.

 

By the way, I'm the former ShannonO. Bootsie - Could you change my listing on the front page? I realized that a quick google search would easily connect me in real life to me in this TTC sanctuary. I don't want to tell people, and I want to feel free here, so I asked for a name change. Sorry to confuse anybody! I'm probably being overly cautious, but I actually found our a friend was TTC by googling her normal forum name and "TTC," so I know it happens.  shy.gif

 

I'm sitting back, doing speedwork on the track to get faster, waiting to O, BDing, took my first OPK today, and have a bubbly tummy. Do any of you every get that? It literally feels like there a bubbles bursting in my tummy, high up. It's unlike anything I've ever felt before. So odd. 

 

 

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Birdie, fingers crossed for you!  Your update made me laugh out loud yesterday.  I agree with Cristini - I think we need shirts.

 

Cristini, I've been thinking the same thing - why bother temping after O is confirmed?  AF will either show up or she won't, right?  However, like you, I usually feel that I need to complete my chart.  And I do like data, even if collecting it drives me bonkers. winky.gif  I hope my OPKs don't send me mixed signals this month!  fingersx.gif for you!

 

Aw, Taxi, you are so sweet!  hug.gif  You're right, the women who contribute to this thread are completely and utterly awesome.  And my goodness, don't wear yourself out!  My dad is a CPA, so he's working crazy hours right now too.  It always worries me.

 

RosieL, welcome back!  I searched "Calycanth" a couple of months ago to see what would come up, and sure enough, the search brought me right to these forums.  Luckily there aren't many people who would connect this name with my true identity - just a handful of friends who (*ahem, nerd alert*) play World of Warcraft, as it's also the name of my primary character.  I don't think any of them would Google stalk me, but I guess you never know.

 

It seems that today is CD8, so we'll start BDing in a couple of days.  DH was happy to hear that this morning.  I'm feeling a little less enthusiastic, but I'll suck it up.  

 

 

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I entered data for the last few months on Fertility Friend!  Whew, that's a lot of numbers.  How do I link my chart to here?  and feel free to chart stalk me :)  tho nothing exciting going on with it at the moment!

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calycanth:  nerd alert:  I play wow too.  Well, I used to.  vanilla wow through right before this expansion came out.  my DP still plays.  My screen name is the same on all the regular sites I am on but only one of those has RL friends on it. 

 

 

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Hello all, just want to stop in and say hi.  wave.gif

 

Caly, like you, I'm totally burnt out on the TTC thing. Hence my absence here.

 

Phantom, welcome!

 

Keeping all of you in my constant thoughts.  heartbeat.gif you guys!

 

 

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So here's a picture of DH and I at Mount St. Michel December 2010

 

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My family: mom, dad, sister, BIL, nephew & DH @ Four Corners during our ski trip December 2009

 

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My mom and me at their house in Spain. April 2008

 

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Dad and me at the beach in Javia, Spain April 2008

 

VACATIONS.. oh I cannot wait until December 2011 (that's when I'll be taking my next vacation)..

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ooooooooooh I looove the vacation pics!!!  Thank you!!!

I might have to dig some of mine up!

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AAAAUUUGGH!  I just deleted a big post again.  Stupid frickin' frackin' touch pad.  Oh, that makes me angry.  Oh well, I guess I'll just type it out again.

 

So, I was looking for my Mexico pictures and couldn't for the life of me find them.  I have them on CD somewhere, but I sure can't find them.  I told my sister that I had just spent about 45 minutes looking for them, and she said, "I think you sent me a copy of some of those . . . yeah, here they are."  It was funny.  She found MY pictures in about 30 seconds, while I still haven't found them here, in 2 days . . . although I gave up in frustration and stopped looking.  And I would use the excuse that I've moved since I stashed them away, but she's moved too.  Twice.  Methinks I might be disorganized.  Anyway, I intended to show you all pictures from our two big trips, but since I could only find a few, I'll mostly just show you ones from our Morroco-Spain-Britain trip in January-March 2010.

 

Most of these were taken by my friend Jerm, because our camera broke.  I just want to give him the credit, because he's a good photographer . . . and I didn't include the best ones, because I don't feel like I'm allowed to distribute them on the internet . . . since they're his.

 

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Those are goats, in a tree.  I can't tell you how cheery it made me, every single time we saw them.  I would yell, "Goats in a tree!  Goats in a tree!" and make everyone stop their bikes and look at them.  The trees are spiky (maybe acacias?  I have no idea) but the goats are tough.  We figured out that the goat herders would wedge rocks into the forks at the bases of the trees to make them grow more horizontally - then the goats could climb them more easily and get delicious food - as you can see, there isn't a whole lot else to eat for them here.

 

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This is my husband and I riding camels in the Sahara desert.  We rode our bikes from Marrakesh to the Sahara desert, over the high atlas mountains, the tallest mountains in North Africa!  I felt pretty tough . . . even if I did have to push my bike a goodly bit of the way up the mountain on the second-last day.  If anyone is ever considering going to Morroco (and I recommend it, it's beautiful), send me a PM and I can tell you about the many ways that Moroccans are proud to screw you out of your money.  I thought that was just some culturally-biased nonsense before we went there.  And it is culturally-biased, but it's not nonsense.  The guy leading the camels was the most frustrating example of us getting screwed out of our money.  Nonetheless, we got to ride camels in the Sahara desert!  So even though it was a bit of a gong show, I'm still really pleased that we got that fantastic experience.  Also, riding camels gives you saddle sores in a very different way that riding a horse does.  By the end of the first three hours on the camels, I had burning raw areas on my butt.  By the end of the next three hours they were oozing, and that afternoon (off the camels) they scabbed over.  Yikes!  Anyway, the Sahara!  When we got to the parts with bigger dunes, I was surprised at just how much it looks like the pictures you see in magazines.  That's the only time I've ever gone someplace, looked at it, and thought, "You know, this isn't that different than looking at pictures of it".  It was still fantastic, but if I had to choose the Sahara or the Redwoods, I would choose the Redwoods - they are impossible to convey in pictures!

 

We got very few pictures in Spain, because it was raining nearly the whole time, and because we're none of us very good at taking pictures of architecture, which was what we were doing in Spain.  So I didn't include any.

 

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This is Erik and I on top of a "Munro" (mountain) in Scotland.  We had left our camping stuff behind before we discovered that we were too cheap for the hostel nearby (prices were twice what it said on the website - but it said "starting at" . . . curses).  So we spent one night sleeping under a bush in a churchyard.  The next night we spent in a little railway hut.  We stuffed garbage bags with newspapers to use as sleeping bags.  It was cold, and we didn't get a whole lot of sleep.  And then we hiked up this mountain!  I wasn't at my fastest due to the lack of sleep, so another guy who started way after us caught up to us just as we neared the top.  He was friendly and took this picture for us (Jerm had left after magically fixing our camera).  The guy was a "Munro-bagger" which means that he's trying to climb every peak above 3000 ft in Scotland.  There's 283 of them.  He was doing a string of three that day, but we left after the first two because we were getting cold and tired, and wanted to make the train back to Edinborough.  Anyway, even though we were exhausted it was amazing, and as you can see, it wasn't cloudy or rainy.  There was also virtually NO wind, which is completely unheard of in Scotland.  It was a perfect day!

 

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This was taken on the way down from the Munros.  There was this steep snow-covered hillside, and Erik wanted to go vloshing (I have no idea how to spell that, since I think it's a word that he made up) down it, which is like skiing but just on your hiking boots.  He's really good at it, I'm not.  The track on the left is from his first run, and you can kind of see his fancy s-turns - not bad for on his boots.  I tried for a bit, but my boots have really good grip, and I have less-than-fantastic balance, and I'm a bit of a scaredy-cat.  So I thought it would be fun to slide down on my butt, like I was sledding.  I had a walking stick to dig in if I needed a brake.  Well, I was wearing rainpants.  Turns out, they were really slippery.  That track on the right that goes straight down?  That was my track.  It's so dark because I was leaning all of my weight on my walking stick (which was wedged under my arm), digging it in to try to slow myself.  I was FLYING down that hill.  As I neared the end I was trying to figure out where would be the safest place to land, because there were some rocks after the snow stopped.  Fortunately, Erik was ready and tackled me about 6 feet before the rocks, and that stopped me.  It was . . . exciting.  Anyway, he likes vloshing so much that he hiked back up the hill to do it again!

 

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This was taken by my best friend when she and I went on a horsepacking trip in the Yukon.  Maybe summer 2006?  I thought our guide was among the best people I've ever casually met.  Our horses caused a bit of trouble trying to make their way back towards home (even with hobbles on) when we camped for the night, and she jumped on her saddle-horse (who wasn't trying to leave) and rounded them back up.  Once she had tethered them, she took the saddle off of her horse, and had to get it back across a little stream to our camp.  She was 70 years old.  She tried to hop across the stream with the saddle in her hands, but she slipped and fell in.  She was fine, but her pants got wet.  So she took them off.  Then she stood out on the deck of the little cabin we were spending the night at, pantsless, and looked to see if she could see any fun wildlife up in the hills with the binoculars.  Mostly bears.  After a bit she said, "Well, too cold for me out here without any pants on, I'm going to bed.  Goodnight," and she went to bed.  I loved her matter-of-fact way of dealing with the wet pants . . . she just took them off and then continued on like nothing had changed.  She was great.

 

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This was taken on our Oregon-Mexico-Guatemala-Belize trip in 2008.  I think this was taken just as we approached the coast in California.  Since I can't find the CD's, I'm not 100% sure.  Anyway, if it's where I was thinking of, this was at the top of a long hard uphill and just before the last major downhill to the coast.  The hill had a 10% grade!  I've never even seen anything like that!  And us, on the tandem bike, with an overloaded trailer behind us . . . we went fast, even with the brakes on nearly full-force.  We had to stop to let the brakes cool multiple times, and to stop Erik had to drag his feet.  It was fun, though!  ZOOM!  And when we got to the coast we were pleased, because it was our first glimpse of the ocean on this trip.  I like this picture because Erik looks so happy!  He's a hard one to get a good photo of, because he's not very exciteable and doesn't smile all that often . . . or frown either, but he always looks so serious.  Anyway, I love this picture, he's grinning!

 

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I don't remember for sure if this was taken in Belize or Guatemala.  We met an artist from Santa Fe in a cave, and he took this picture.  He had followed a path into a cave, and it had a little rope handrail for most of the length, and he had forgotten to bring a light (the cave was at the back of a fairly long trail).  We had been sitting in the cave for a while, with our lights off, listening to the creek.  When we started back out, we were startled by the guy crouching in the shadows.  I think he was trying to figure out how to get our attention without startling us, when we saw him anyway.  He sounded really sheepish and explained that he was using his camera's focus light to try to light his way.  We offered our services as people who had a headlamp, and took him to the end of the path (which wasn't much farther).  We got to talking and he offered to drive us to the coast of Belize, which sounded good, as it was getting way too hot to ride our bike during the days, and I didn't feel safe riding at night.  We spent a few days with him in Belize and Guatemala, looking at historic sites, hiking, and snorkeling.  The above picture was taken by our new companion on a little day hike, when we found a nice little pool to go swimming in.

 

I hope that those help . . . if you can't go on a vacation right now, it's nice to look at photos of vacations and imagine you're there.  Thanks for the photos, Taxlady and Ramzubo!  I like the one of the little Wallaby (that is a Wallaby, right?), and the underwater fish picture - we've tried to take snorkeling pictures but they never look that good!  And Taxlady, I like the one with Mount St Michel in the background - is that ever impressive!  And the coast of Spain, too.  Also, your dad is enormous!

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Tank: Ah, good, I'm not the only one!  WoW is actually the only video game I've played since I was in elementary school.  I kind of married into it - DH's entire family plays.  His mother is the hardcore gamer.  She's a professor and has been studying WoW for several years now - her book on the subject came out last spring.  I actually haven't played since the last expansion either.

 

Catheleni: I remember your last post about needing a break from all the obsessing.  You're in my thoughts too! hug.gif

 

Taxlady: Are you tiny, or is your dad really, really tall?  I would love to go to Spain...so jealous!

 

Hykue: Wow, you are an adventurous and well-traveled woman!  I love the outdoors in a car-camping sort of way. orngtongue.gif  I can't imagine sleeping under a bush because a hostel was too expensive.  More power to you!  I love love love the picture of you and Eric under the waterfall...too awesome for words!

 

OK, I want in on the vacation photo fun...

 

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Here we have one of the many geckos that joined DH and I at breakfast while on our honeymoon in Hawaii.  Turns out geckos love fruit juice.

 

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This is me on the way down Mt. Elbert, the highest peak in Colorado.  DH and I and my good friend Kristina hiked to the top in 2008.

 

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Here's Trafalgar Square in London.  DH and I visited my brother-in-law there a few years ago when he was in grad school at the London School of Economics.

 

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Here's the moon rising over a gorgeous beach on Grand Bahama...

 

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And, for good measure, here's a picture of me sucking down a delicious, fruity cocktail on said beach.  This photo pretty much sums up what I did on this particular trip.

 

Happy Saturday!

 

 

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LOVE LOVE LOVE the pictures, ValH and Ramzubo I've been admiring them for days!!

I hope everyone is having a great weekend joy.gif

Welcome h4ppyphant0m!!

My computer keeps crashing so I'm working from three devices...eyesroll.gif

Sorry if I don't respond to everyone individually-my head is hurting and poor hubby is sick so I'm going in several directions and they aren't all good.

Names: my parents gave us a mix of family names and the three most popular girls names the year we were born. Growing up it irked me that there were always three other girls with the same name as me in class but I was named after my great-aunt and my cousin's beautiful daughter and I share the same name so my name became more special to me as I got older. Pick whatever your heart desires.

Telling everyone/anyone/no one: I think that is totally up to you but I know it's hard for people you tell to respect your wishes. I'm not even pregnant and telling people we were ttc was a tough call. I just remember the last big event of my life (getting married) it seemed like it became less about us and more about how everyone felt about it, rehash their happy/sad/painful/joyous memories that it took some of the fun out of it. It's hard to find a happy medium with sharing on a personal level and I think it's hard for some people to filter through their response because it's personal.

First cycle off of bcp-I'm learning so much! Ovulated on CD17 but my luteal phase was 14 days exactly with a 30 day cycle. I just hope I won't ovulate so late this time around.

Baby dust - baby dust - baby dust!!
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I don't have any news to report. And I'm supposed to be writing a paper. However, I have to share.

 

I am supposed to go to China December of this year for a conference, and plan to take DH with me. If we catch the egg this month, that would put our due date EXACTLY at the time of the conference. Ugh! I kind of started thinking "maybe it's not a good idea to try this month" and mentioned it to DH. He said "Absolutely not. We decided it's time to try, and that's priority #1." I was so surprised! Despite his lack of enthusiasm and not really talking much about TTC, he's firmly rooted in it, and called it priority #1! Yay! It makes me so happy. 

 

Okay back to paper-writing. I was supposed to wake up at 5:30 to work but apparently turned my alarm off in my sleep. Whoops!

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Hi RosieL - GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR PAPER!!  I know it's tough to study study.. so I hope you finish it up soon!!  notes.gif As far as, sleeping in a little.. well, your brain will work so much better after more sleep.  Also..my sister had a "bubbly tummy" (that's exactly what she called it), when she got pregnant with my nephew.  fingersx.gif

 

Hykue - you have been on a few major adventures. WOW!  Loved the pictures and the narratives!!  The waterfall is my favorite. 

 

Caly - your pictures look so professional with beautiful color!!  And I'm so glad you put up a picture of you - I like putting some faces on my favorite people!!  I love your hair cut!  You can go to Spain and stay at my parents house.. it's empty a lot and they like to share it with people who can use it.  They don't rent it, they just share it.  

 

My dad is 6'7" tall and I'm only 5'1".  He played football for UCLA.  I say I got my mom's height and my dad's weight... which makes me like the "little tea pot" from the song.  ROTFLMAO.gif You can also tell that I really like orange (or my orange fleece).  The year we went on the ski trip, I bought everyone a monogrammed fleece.. but didn't buy myself one.  DH secretly ordered me one and he had no idea I had gotten him an orange one so you can imagine our surprised when we both got orange!  MEANT TO BE!!  love.gif  

 

Northstar - I always wondered  how I went to school with lots of girls named the same name.. but I thought they were in the "club".  My name has many different variations for boys and girls...still, I wouldn't want to be named anything else.  Had I been a boy.. my dad wanted Thorbjorn and my mom wanted a Trevor or an Eric.  I like all those, but I'm glad I'm a girl.. 

 

I hope when I come back to the computer.. there are going to be more vacation pictures.. HEY BOOTSIE - AWESOME IDEA!!  Now that you're on SPRING BREAK.. I hope you get lots of rest and relaxation!!  XOXO

 

 

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Oh my goodness what a gorgeous thread and a fantastic start to it!

 

Congrats, Rambuzo! joy.gif

 

Welcome, HappyPhantom! Welcome.gif

 

And yay, LivingSky, for having a boy! thumb.gif

 

This is more work for the threadkeeper, but it would be lovely to have a list of who is expecting boys or girls or is being surprised. :)

 

I wish I had time to write a lot and put in some personal commentary, but I am still trying not to drown in homework and work related tasks. This one particular class I am taking is just killing me. If I ever take another course from the same instructor, it will be the ONLY course I take! Between the homework, upcoming parent conferences, and an impending licensing inspection of the center I work at, I've got too much on my plate.

 

I noticed that at least one other of you is in early childhood and there is at least one other teacher... so maybe one of you can help me out. I have to create a theme box for the class I am taking and it has to contain a set number of books, handmade items, found items, songs, and fingerplays. I'm having trouble finding fingerplays related to my theme, which is "I Am an Artist". Do you have any in your box of tricks that fit the bill?
 

Not much going on here, TTC-wise. I'm 7 DPO and feel absolutely nothing. My chart doesn't look excited so far either. I think I'll test a week from now, if the chart looks favorable. Hubby will be out of town on business and if there is a chance to surprise him with a BFP when he comes home, I'd like to do that.
 

I'll be going to a spa for a friend's bachelorette party later this week... should I worry about the temps in the pools in the event that I might have some implantation action going on? I don't want any hard-boiled eggs! yikes.gif

 

I am loving the vacation pics! Rambuzo, how did you get such a clear underwater shot?! We spent our honeymoon in the Virgin Islands and all of our underwater photos were really quite sad.

 

Here are some of my favorites:

 

From our honeymoon in St. Thomas:

 

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On the edge of our favorite snorkeling reef.

 

 

 

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Part of the view from our condo balcony... we were treated to the most amazing sunrises, sunsets, and storms! The island to the right is uninhabited and full of wild donkeys. Further right, not in the pic, are some of the British Virgins Islands - most of which were also uninhabited. The storms would all "come from England" as my husband liked to say... which he found appropriate... and swallow up the islands before engulfing our balcony. It was amazing to watch.

 

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One of my favorite iguana friends posing for the camera. They were everywhere, and since we went to our favorite beaches multiple times, we really got to know the iguanas as individuals.

 

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This lovely storm system (a tropical wave) battered us for the first several days (we didn't mind, we were busy entertaining one another) before moving on to the gulf and turning into a hurricane. This photo was taken before it swallowed us up... the rain came sideways into the condo with the wind driving it under all the doors and windows even after we managed to close them!

 

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And I gotta throw in a pic of the red vintage suit I bought. It was great for keeping me covered from the sun, but not so great for staying warm on the cloudy days because there is just SO much fabric! This is our favorite snorkeling location because we got to swim with sea turtles on more than one occasion and I found a school of squid that I liked to follow.

 

 

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Holy crap, TickleToes, I want that swimsuit.  So cute!   I'm not sure about the temperature/implantation dilemma...

 

Taxlady, you actually bear an uncanny resemblance to one of my good friends from college, but she's a psychologist lady, not a tax lady. orngtongue.gif  That picture was taken a few years ago.  My hair is slightly longer and a little more conservative now.  I'm trying to grow it out (I'd like to be able to just throw it up in a ponytail), but it's a wretched process.  I love funky hair - during my first couple years of grad school, I wore it in short, anime-style spikes.  

 

Oh man, it's almost Monday.  Pffft.

 

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