March Dating Shenanigans - Spring is in the air.... Scintillating Surprises? Serenity? - Page 8

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I know it's April but I am just returning from a trip and catching up. I really enjoyed the last week's posts. 

MM: "Wow.  I have no tolerance for being treated with anything but respect and kindness"   THIS is such a powerful statement.  May we all have this policy and may it be adhered to absolutely! 

Also you all are so funny.  You make me smile!!

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Originally Posted by Moochie Mamma 

My new motto since leaving XH (our divorce was final yesterday- kinda weird since we still get along great as friends) is that if someone can't give me the minimum of respect, honesty and kindness I'm outta there.  My question though is under what circumstance do you give someone a 2nd chance?  Or do you ever give a 2nd chance?  (not that I'm thinking of it with this guy just asking in general)

This happened to me. I gave the guy the analogy of Monopoly and the get out of jail free card. There is only one in the deck. Once you have used it that is it. If the guy screws up twice early on - especially if it's the same issue - move on. I understand misunderstandings can happen but if you've already set the expectation the first screw up, then don't tolerate more.

Personally I would have trouble trusting a guy that acted like that. I think he is showing hints of his true colors.