Quote: Originally Posted by witchygrrl View PostYe Gods, something bad is happening to a coworker. She feels that she is being bullied at work, and she may well be. At the same time, she does have a lot of unhappiness at work even beyond this situation. What's worse is that she's thinking of leaving, and if so, I'm in a good position to get her full-time job, and I feel guilty about it, even though I have absolutely nothing to do with her problems there. I feel like I'd be inviting bad karma to myself if I end up taking her job. I need some guidance.
I'm sorry this is happening to her. I wouldn't worry about you getting her job, though; she's not going to lose her job or quit because you'd like to be in her place
Quote: Originally Posted by mommamanjari View PostMaia, I hope your hand heals quickly. Is the arnica helping?
It's hard to tell. I think it's just making it smell like menthol I think the ibuprofen is actually doing something, though. It does seem a lot less swelled this evening than it was this morning.
Quote: Originally Posted by Valerie.Qc View PostI'm spoiled! My DS made an Almond Flour Poundcake just for me while we were out! I'm tempted to eat only cake with frozen blueberries and whipped cream for supper.
Hell, I would! Sounds yummifying!
Quote: Originally Posted by sweetsunshine85 View PostMaia~ How's your hand today?
Thanks for asking. Lots more usage in it today! And like I said, I think the swelling's finally going down.
Really crummy evening now-- ds had his belt test, none of the little boys passed, and I think he did well enough t pass! He was fine until we got out of there. Then he fizzled in tears-- which is understandable-- but then he got OB.NOX.IOUS. Srsly bad. In the car, threatening the teacher, threatening to tear his belt up and his uniform, threatening to quit, all this really nasty stuff. And I had to drive home in the dark with this shyte going on, after the whole thing lasted an hour longer than it was supposed to? I don't think so. I made him go to his room and not have anything to do with me. I almost made him go to bed without supper. He was horribly obnoxious to me. Horribly obnoxious in general. I had to turn up the radio in the car nearly all the way to drown him out because he just.would.not.shut.up, and he was so mean!
I was like...you know what, I thought you deserved to be promoted. And I thought you handled it really well when you found out you weren't. AND I think you deserve to be sad. But I do NOT think for one red hot minute that you have the right to act like a two-year-old and threaten people and treat other people like cr*p, just because you're angry. I have just lost any respect for you that I had.
And to top it off, I finally got to talk to M after not being able to for hours and hours, and he ended up hanging up on me because he interrupted me about ds once too much while I was trying to explain...ick. And then shut his phone off for awhile. M and I are all straightened out. Thank the gods. DS has calmed down some. I'm way, way ready for bed.
And the icing on the cake is this forum wouldn't let me reply for awhile...I had to re-log in, even though I was already logged in, and that's why my reply looks wonky.
We're not going to the Catholic church tomorrow after all. The other lady had something come up. Maybe when I get back from M's.