finsmom: sorry to give you the totally wrong advice! I have no idea how the vitex will work for me, since I still haven't o'd but once I do, I'll be curious to see what my lp is compared to before.
mayasmama88 : I don't think it's sad you don't know how to chart, everyone's got to learn sometime! I would recommend getting Taking Charge Of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler. That's where I learned to chart, and it was invaluable at helping me understand my cycles and conceive quickly, although they were definitely easier to understand before I started nursing!