We've talked very frankly with our kids about abortion, adoption, abstinence and contraception. I'm good with any of those options, and present them fairly neutrally. I would support any of these options.
I, personally, do think raising a baby as a teen is pretty much the definition of "ruining your life." I appreciate that others feel differently. We have two young girls in our neighborhood who got pregnant at a very early age, and my girls have watched the dramatic effects this has had on their lives. I am not up for raising grandchildren, and my girls know this.