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post #21 of 26
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Originally Posted by zannster View Post

I moved to Seattle (actually just north of the city) last September from the Midwest.

 

There are a lot of evergreen trees in this area - moreso then Seattle proper, I think. And I don't like them. They block out what little sun we get here for most of the day. We're renting our house, and when I look for another place (assuming we stay here), I will look for something with fewer tall trees. I know people who talk about all the green here (and the green grass rather than brown or WHITE in the winter is nice) but really, it just all looks dark in the winter, IMO. I want to see some sky!

 

I've always liked rain, but somehow this place hasn't impressed me, weather-wise. First of all, you don't get much of a break. There are SO many cloudy, wet days, and in the winter, they're very short too, what with being so far north. Also, it hardly ever dries out. Even when the sun is shining, it doesn't seem to dry out the ground - so forget having your little kids crawl around on the ground, because they'll get wet/dirty. If you like to sit outside, as I do, look for someplace with a covered patio or deck.

 

Our rental costs are a bit high but not nearly as bad as when we lived in southern CA. My husband takes a bus that travels down Bothell/Lake City Way to downtown. Other than that, we don't use the public transportation much.

 

I'm not a big city girl, and I'm often frustrated with being here. The traffic is a major nuisance. People are hard to get to know. There are various mom groups and meetup groups but they seem to lack the closeness that I had with my previous playgroup. I think it's harder with everyone being spread out over a larger area. I'm trying to get a group started in a smaller area. I have a daughter too young for many activities (though she's getting close now) and a son in elementary school, so my outings are somewhat limited. For me, the biggest attraction here is the FOOD, though even that has its negatives, because Seattle is missing a few of the chain places and specific foods I used to like in other parts of the country. But I'm exploring new foods too. Food is definitely more expensive here (particularly in restaurants).

 

Visiting the Puget Sound is nice. The crunchiness factor (much higher than where I came from) is good. Lots of people interested in environmental issues, breastfeeding, and so on. OTOH, I'm not cloth diapering my little one (yet?), and I haven't caught any grief from that either. There are a lot of cloth diapering and EC folks in the groups I frequent, but there are plenty of disposable diapering moms too. I guess people are more polite. ;)


This is basically how I feel as well.  We moved here about 4 years ago from Southern California and I hate all the gloominess and the millions of trees. Everything is always shady and cold and I really miss warm sun.

 

The only thing I would disagree with is the food.  Food here is terrible and way overpriced.  Groceries are easily double what I used to spend and the produce sucks.  The restaurants are pretty mediocre too.

 

People are really really hard to get to know up here. It took about 3 years but I finally feel like I have some good friends up here. The first few years I was so lonely and depressed.

 

post #22 of 26

Oh my this thread is depressing!! I moved here from Hawaii in 2003 and LOVE IT! We went to the Arboretum on Saturday and even though the day started off with some drizzle, it never really rained. The ducks and geese were on the water and we walked and walked and looked at trees and birch bark and fungus growing on rocks and walked on the floating bridges and through the cherry trees full of blossoms. It was cool enough so we never got tired walking but warm enough so we didn't need coats. We even had some pink on our cheeks from the sun that didn't seem to be out but we definitely got our vit D dose. On Friday the sun was shining so my girls dragged the kiddie pool out of the storage closet and filled it up ankle deep and splashed in it after planting some peas in our tiny patch of dirt in front. 

 

It rains way more in Hawaii, btw, and it's humid there. I'll take cool rain over hot and sticky rain anyday! Maybe it just depends on your perspective. I initially moved here in winter and lived in SeaTac. We bought a house in Tukwila and that was interesting - not much community there for us.  My partner and I separated and I moved to Shoreline with the children and worked full time out of the home. Since then I've also lived in Kenmore, Bothell and now Bellevue. I was actually against Bellevue before I moved here because it seemed far away and I had this impression of it being a place with no personality. But it truly is a city in a garden. There are all the amenities of a city with a thriving downtown area, tons of good restaurants, all the chain stores and restaurants (if you're into that thing), a cute little water park for the kids, lake beaches with life guards, community and rec centers with lots of activities, tons of nature areas like the Kelsey Creek watershed and Bridle Trails for horses.  We love Crossroads Mall, not for the shopping, but for the community garden, farmer's market, Monday Pokemon club at Uncle's Games, the international food in the food court (no chain restaurants there!), watching the life-size chess game going on, browsing at Half-price books with some boba tea... Also, my son is on the Autism spectrum and the Kindering center is here and the school district has been so supportive and helpful with my son. I have experience with other school districts and it was never this easy.  

 

Yes the Seattle Freeze is real. It's very strange. But if you're friendly and don't take it personally, it melts.  It's so strange to run into people I know at Central Market in Shoreline or PCC in Redmond or find that my son's schoolmate's mother has a picture of us at the Seattle Center Breastfeeding Awareness day from 2005 or that I have actually worked with my college professor's wife on Autism Awareness in Olympia. It's a big place but a lot smaller than you think.  

 

Just for reference, as an adult I have lived in Los Angeles, Oakland, Santa Cruz (CA), Dallas, Austin, San Antonio (TX) and the Big Island of Hawaii. As a child my mother took us all over the world.  I have also been to eastern Washington a bit since I've lived here and Portland and Eugene in OR and also Vancouver BC. I love the PNW. I'm not a person who likes to be hot and sweaty and I really don't mind going outdoors when it's overcast. Of course the daffodils and tulips are blooming and there are copious amounts of daisies out for making daisy chains. It's hard not to be exhilirated with nature's beauty right now - even if the sky alternates between gray and blue all day.  I stand at the bus stop with my son at 8 am every morning and the sky is always lovely, no matter the weather. 

post #23 of 26

I lived in Seattle for a couple of decades before moving to near Olympia (same, but more rain).  As a professional gardener I was outside all the time working, and it helped a lot being outside in the light and fresh air, however grey it was.  Seattle is a good town.  Driving--and staying oriented!-- takes getting used to.  Bus and bike friendly for the most part.  I lived in North Seattle and loved it.  Here near Olympia, more rural, smaller town, like that too, 

post #24 of 26

Wow. Thanks for this thread. We are considering moving to the Seattle area, and we were just there this past week. We actually loved the area and thought it was beautiful... And we thought the people seemed really friendly and nice. People obeyed traffic laws, they were okay with answering my weird questions, and the general pace of life seemed slower (we live in Philly right now).

 

Now I'm a little nervous. The lack of sunshine, the lack of real warmth from people (Seattle Freeze), etc... makes me hesitant. Ah, I'm so conflicted.

post #25 of 26

It's a different kind of warmth.  The Seattle Freeze is actually kind of nice because you don't waste time thinking someone is a friend before they really are.  You keep aquaintances for a very long time here and really take your time making real friends.  I think it's preferable to the small town "everyone is my best friend" kind of thing.  Although, it did hurt my feelings a lot when I first moved here.  I thought there was something wrong with me.  I started bring books to read when we went anywhere because I couldn't count on anyone talking to me.  I guess the book made me more approachable and suddenly people started warming up.  So, I guess the trick is to look busy;) 


 

 

 

post #26 of 26

Yes, I kind of prefer that too... though, I have to say, if we move there and I don't make any friends, it would feel really lonely :(

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