Wild Doula, Im glad to see you here. Did you move?
Also, I just wanted to pop in and add that lots of babies are conceived by mamas who are smoking and drinking. While its not ideal, its certainly not the end of the world. Im 27, and in a great position to carry another child, but I can tell you one thing: we werent planning to ttc until November of this year, and this baby wouldn't have been conceived without a couple too many drinks

Im glad for it, but it wasnt quite planned.