In my family its 2 cut vs. 3 intact. My dad and BIL are cut (though BIL's mother deeply regrets it). My sister and BIL are now proud parents to my intact nephew and BIL even talks to other dads about keeping their sons intact. My husband and brother and intact.
We will not circumcise our son. I know my nephew is circ'd (only boy on my side) and this baby I am pregnant with the first grandson on DH's side, so who knows what will happen there. I expect we'll get some pretty negative reactions from my family when they find out and DH's family is pretty opinionated so if they are against leaving him intact, I expect to hear about how bad our decision is (DH is circ'd.) I know my sister thinks it's wrong not to circ and my mom probably agrees so I am not discussing it with either of them. I was talking to a big group of friends about it a few months ago and was surprised that not one of their sons is intact, so I expect he'll be the only boy I know not circ'd. I'm only sad that I've gotten a few negative comments about our choice from friends. I have no desire to educate anyone or discus it at length, I was just hoping folks would either accept it or not care enough to comment negatively.
When people give negative comments the best response is (insert husbands name) is intact. They shut up real fast and never bring it up again. In my case its true but its not like the average person would know if it were or not.