My husband and I are newly separated (again) and working out this new lifestyle. He moved in with his parents 1.5 hours away, so our agreement is that he is to have the kids every other weekend. He has stated that he likes it better down there so he is looking for a job and a place in that area instead of trying to get himself settled closer to the kids.
So, sports are really important to my son and he was signed up for baseball (as he does every year) before we separated. We just got the practice schedule and they have practices on sundays from 1-3. (in addition to two days during the week). He normally drops the kids off at 4 on Sunday anyway, so getting him to practice just requires him to come to the area a few hours earlier and take the kids to the ball park.
He is saying that is too much to ask and he won't be taking him to practice. We don't have any legal agreements yet, but I am wondering what the legal expectations are in a situation like that. Would it be expected of him to facilitate activities like that or is he right in saying that he shouldn't have to be involved and he can do what he wants on his weekends?