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post #21 of 29

Hi all!

  Just wanted to say yes!!!  this is the sixth time now I've been pregnant although I lost two, one a stillbirth, one a miscarriage.  EVERYTIME  I knew before I became pregnant that I would be having a child.  I would have a feeling suddenly come upon me and within months was pregnant.  Its almost like there is another presence in my field before I conceive.  This time I took out my diapers to give away to a friend and I felt so wierd about it.  I suddenly had the urge to have another child.  Now this is not at all a logical urge but something deeper.  Also I had this spirit come to me in a dream telling me I would concieve in 6 months and exactly 6 months later, I'm pregnant. I had actually forgotten about the dream until I felt the presence of a child around me.  Now I don't know when life begins because there seems to me to be a gradual awakening of the soul.  I have felt a change at 6 weeks when the heart beats and definently something different when the child leaves the womb and comes to the world.  I have also had an early miscarriage when there never was a heart beating and a child whose heart stopped beating at 8 months gestation.  The child at 8 months gestation had taken hold but only in the spirit world and I am not so sure about the little one who didn't make it past 6 weeks.  I wonder if that spirit is the one in my womb now because in my dream that spirit came to me and I lifted her out of the grave brought her back to life and suckled her and she told me she would be back in 6 months when I was ready.  I am very happy to have her in my life again and hope and pray she makes it this time!

Thanks for bringing this topic up!

Cheers,

Cora

post #22 of 29
I felt the same thing with my two beautiful kids. I would dream of them being in my womb and seeing if it was a boy or a girl. With my first son I already knew that we had met before in a previous life. And he has returned to be with me ❤ and with my daughter I would feel her presence or when I would meditate I would see a little girl holding my hand and this was about 3 months before I fell pregnant, I knew that I was having a girl even before the ultrasounds. Now I have just been feeling a presence following me i believe it's my next baby but I get the feeling it's twins. They say before a child is born its chooses it's parents, watching them to see if they will help the With what they need to learn to help there souls progress. And fill in there karmic ties.So they stalk u and see how there future will pan out with u as there parent. If u would like to know more you should read Survival of the soul by Lisa Williams, it's a great book. Love and light :-)
post #23 of 29

More stories!lurk.gif

post #24 of 29

Hi All,

 

I don't have any children myself - yet! We are TTC, but I just wanted to contribute!

About 10 DPO last cycle I was climbing  a rick while we were overseas and knew it wasn't very safe.. Right before I fell I heard this little voice say "Please be careful".. I could have sworn it said "momma" at the end.....Then I fell straight off the rock and hurt myself... Well my period was 2 days late and extremely heavy..... But this cycle I all of a sudden felt excited and happy like this might be "It", even tho I was a few days away from O.

 

But I also wanted to share- The Australian Aboriginals (I live in Australia) believe in spirit babies very strongly.. In fact they believe that its the spirit babies that decide to MAKE you pregnant, not the other way around.

And in traditional communities it is still believed that once you hear your spirit babies (who can come from trees and lakes, rocks, flowers, oceans, animals etc) that its best to start having sex straight away to "Open" yourself to them and make their journey into your womb easier.

The sex is just a physical act to literally open you for a time so the spirit babies can make their way in....

 

I think I really love that :)

post #25 of 29

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Edited by miriam - 5/27/12 at 9:01am
post #26 of 29

DH and I are trying again now that our son is two and a half.  The other night I was laying with DS in his big boy bed before sleep and he told me Milo was in my belly.  That's the name we will give our next son.  I had felt fluttering after dtd on my birthday and am so afraid of starting af this week.  Thanks all for sharing your stories.

post #27 of 29

Just wanted to say that not long after posting this I had another run in with the same "voice" who just had a little girly feel about her... I could tell she was "close"

Well the next month we conceived and now we are due with number one in December 2012! We will just have to wait and see if it is that little girl I heard tho :)

post #28 of 29

I am on my 7th pregnancy and have felt the spirit before hand every time, whether I consciously let it come in or let it sneak in however it managed (I've had a couple that were very unlikely, except that they were determined little spirits). I characterize it as feeling like i'm already pregnant, and just need a physical act to actually manifest it. I have talked to a few mama friends who have also had the experience and agree with that sort of interpretation. I am also quite good at "seeing" babies around other women... I have frequently known when a friend was about to conceive, even if it wasn't planned, as well as knowing before they do that they have. I can also tell when a woman who is TTC does not have one hanging around her, but of course I would never mention that.

post #29 of 29

Wow! I cant believe what I'm reading! In my culture the Bassa of Cameroon Central Africa there is a strong belief in spirti babies like the aborigenes who can come from anything within nature like lakes  or trees. The addition is that they choose you and come as a blessing or punishment for your past actions in previous lives or in the present one or even for those of your ancestors.It is believed that every child comes with his/her blessings and curses some come with riches some with poverty.  I personnally think the served or then societies to explain the differences between gifted, challenged, brillant, not so brillant and children who turn bad or to explain a sudden change in social status (good or bad) during or after the pregnancy. Still not fair to put that on the parent but thank God medicine has evolved in any case thats out of topic.

I just want to add that in some cases some spirit children were born several times in the same family!  let me break it down.

When a family lost a LO especially below five and the local shaman or sorcerer or priest call it the way you want we call it mbombock said the child had decided to leave the family because S/he missed her/his previous familly (and possibly wife/husband or kids he left in the other world ) or just because s/he had stuff to go take care of there scarifications were made on the corpse on an invisble part for a LO and on the face for a child who had brought a lot of pain to the family. rituals were then performed to either make the LO come back or never come back.

So, sometimes the LO after going back into the unseen world came back to his mama s/hewas born with that scar on his/her body. This scars also served to alert families when a bad child )those with marking on the face) came into their families. Rituals will then be performed to stop the child from leaving once more or to appease his/her anger in the event of a child who brought misfortune.

These beliefs and rites are almost extinct but for a few espcially when a child is born with a scar on the face! lol

I personnaly don't belive in spirit babies Im Chritian but I do believe that mankind has lost that connection it had with the unseen thats why Moses could talk to God and we don't. I'm ttc but  I already feel like I'm gonna have a girl its just a feeling, but if we could open our spiritual eyes we would be able to see the angels/spirit babies /lost ones.

Have a sonderfulday and happy baby dust joy.gif

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