13 months here and still swaddling for some naps and some bedtimes. like other pp's said, it's like she can't turn off without it. unswaddled, i have to nurse or rock her down to a deep sleep. swaddled, i can put her down AWAKE and WALK AWAY, and she will drift of to sleep with maybe a minute of fussing, if that. usually she just chatters for a couple minutes and then is out. the days when i am touched out and exhausted, swaddling is a huge blessing...
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it doesn't work every night, and it isn't necessary every night either, but the nights it is necessary, i wouldn't dream of doing without because she's "too old".
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seriously, my biggest piece of advice is, if it works for your child and you, keep doing it. it's not like swaddling is some time consuming or inconvenient practice... it is simple, effective and fast, so keep doing it! you will not be gaining a single thing by trying to change your child's sleep habits without very good reason.
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we use a giant flannel blanket and an a+a muslin blanket. we can use just about any large, non-stretchy piece of fabric. an old sheet cut down would work just as well.