my 2.5yo intact ds is always playing with his "peens", just recently he started to retract the foreskin revealing his penis. he then comes to me with it out and asks "mama what's inside my peens?" sounding concerned. i tell him it is his peens and he should leave it covered, that the cover is there to protect it. well when dh sees or hears of him doing it he gets mad, while i try and explain a little but firmly ask that he not do it. his foreskin has never been forcefully retracted otherwise to my knowledge, and i feel i would know since i spend 24/7 with the kids and have always done all their dr. appts.
is he hurting himself, he does not express pain when doing it, or causing a potential problem?
also my 4.5yo intact ds sees it happen and i have now seen him trying to do the same thing only his foreskin won't retract, is that normal?