Anyone else tired of being told "Oh you don't look pregnant!"?
Every single time I talk about being pregnant to someone new it's the same reaction. Oh I can't tell you are pregnant, or where's your belly? Or 22 weeks, really you look like you just a had a big lunch. THE WORST (possibly triggering): You should ask for another ultrasound because what if the baby is dead. WHO THE HELL SAYS THAT?!!!!
I have a belly. I do! I'm in maternity jeans because my pants don't fit. The baby is measuring large for goodness sakes! Two or three times when this has happened I was wearing a bikini, so I know it's not because my clothes are too voluminous. I swear if it weren't for my mom and hubby who keep me sane by exclaiming how much I've popped I'd go kooky! I am obsessive about making sure I can feel him squirm around inside me, just because that dang seed of doubt has been planted in my head. ARRRGH
Is anyone else in this boat with me?