My son is 5.5 now and we did not circumcise him at birth (although my husband really wanted me too!). I have not retracted his foreskin nor have I allowed anyone else to. At his 4 year old visit we had a great doc (she was german) she did metion that his foresin was tight (it has NEVER been pulled back very far) and that during bath time I should encourage my son to pull back the foreskin, I have been doing that (ok not every time) at his last well visit, we just moved and have a new doc, she was really concerned that his foreskin would not go back and said we were going to need to have this taken care of, I of course freaked out and now my husband thinks we should of done it at birth. I have my son try and retract it and he doesn't go very far before he says it hurts, what do I do?!?!?!? Thanks!