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Originally Posted by ellemenope 

RE: eye problems

DD (32 months) was diagnosed with a very slight (like 5 degree) intermittent exotropic strabismus at 21 months.  We went the ophthalmology route.  Patching seemed to help.  After a couple of months the doctor could not even detect it in the office.  We still saw it, especially if she was sick.  But, it seemed to be resolving itself, and because she would no longer allow it, we stopped patching about 6 months ago.  Everything was fine until now.

About a month ago DD really started to read.  And, about a month ago, I have started noticing the eye turn again.  It has gotten as bad as it ever was.  Last week, she started to read whole sentences at a time, and I have noticed something that might be odd.  I don't know.  She reads the sight words fine, but when she gets to a word she has to sound out, she turns her head away, closes her eyes, and sounds it out, then goes pack to the page.  She cannot look at small print or print surrounded by other words and sound out a word.  It is actually kind of disturbing to watch.  She seems uncomfortable and fidgety.

This is not something I want to talk about.  It really makes me sick to think that her reading might be making her eye worse. We just moved so I have to find a new doctor and get in as soon as possible.  I just want you all to know that everyone's thoughts and experiences on the subject are being thoroughly mulled over by me.

I'm not a (medical) doctor, but I am glad you're going to see a new opthalmologist.  You said she was diagnosed with exotropia which is the eyes turning out, but now her eye is turning in (which is esotropia).  http://www.strabismus.org/exotropia_eye_turns_out.html  So it might be that your DD's vision has changed since she was younger (or maybe the terminology is confusing).  

I wouldn't think that the reading is causing her eye problems, but that the eye problems are becoming more apparent since she's reading.  DD's eye crossing didn't become apparent until she started preschool and was doing a lot more close up work.  

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Originally Posted by deminc 

KCMichigan,

Thank you for sharing! I'm glad for the reassurance that it does really help some children. I'm almost afraid to check out the books, but you're right, I should. I'm almost afraid to find out how bad his vision might actually be if this Irlen syndrome thing is true. We have been given overlays, but DS1 seem to be holding out on them. He resents using them, yet once he starts on a page, he refuses to read without them and then runs off as quickly as he can. I was so exasperated and told him I would be happy to cancel the next appointment and just go with the optometrist who says it is a minor issue and would work itself out. He then panicked and said to give him a few weeks - I can't fathom what for.

In the past, he had broken down after reading one or two pages, and all he would say was he couldn't go on like this anymore. Today he tells me this is because the words sometimes fragment and disappear entirely, and he must be stupid because only a stupid brain can't see words. Last month he had a really bad fall in school - it looked as though someone punched him a few times on one side of his face - and he had said he couldn't see anything for a while but could not supply any further details. After reading how some Irlen sufferers cannot see parts of their surroundings, I'm slowly freaking out inside. The clinic we went to is the only one here. The next one is a six-hour flight away, so I have no choice but to go back to her, which I will, to find out more.  

That is very scary - is it possible that some of his vision problems started after this head injury? I would be concerned that something was damaged when he had this injury.  Has he seen an opthalmologist?  I think I would start with a thorough examination with an opthalmologist (MD) as opposed to an optometrist (DO), since his problems seem to be pretty severe.  The ped opthalmoplogist would be able to determine if there's some other root cause.  

It must be heartbreaking to hear about his troubles reading.  I know these vision problems are so scary.  When our DD was initially having trouble, her ped wanted her to see a neurologist, and have an MRI with sedation and this just freaked me out.  Luckily we got in to see a ped opth and determined that she had a relatively common problem that could be fixed with glasses. I wish you good luck - it sounds like you are working so hard to help him.