I have a barely two year old and a four month old ds. My question is if you were in my position who would you ec first or would you do both? The reason I'm asking is because my two year old is still somewhat jealous of my four month old and whatever I do for my four month old my two year old wants it done to him also. So I was hoping that if I ec'ed my four month old my two year old would learn somewhat from example. Is this unrealistic? Had I known about ec earlier I would have done it with my first. We're very gentle and very AP and we cosleep. My kids are both in cloth diapers The problem is every day when we wake up my two year old pee's in his pants through his diapers and it goes all over the bed. I'm tired of washing the bed sheets everyday lol. More than that though I think it's interrupting his sleep because he wakes up from being wet, versus him using the potty and then going back to sleep.
My next question is this. For night time ec do you set your alarm up to remind you your lo needs to go or do you just know from their movements while they sleep? I guess those are my two questions for now, My dh and I just saw the potty whisperer and researched some sites about it so we're ready to start and we're both excited about ec'ing our kids. Thanks for any input