Well, I got to meet her, and she's absolutely a lovely person. She and ex were picking up DS to go camping with DS's godfather and his fiance who are in town for the weekend. Her mom is watching her kids, but she decided to bring along her three year old so DS would have a play buddy, which I thought was really nice. We hung out and chatted for 20 minutes or so and it was very comfortable and non-weird. I made sure to throw in a casual reference to my BF.
She and ex were actually high school sweethearts until her family moved to another state, so it's really sort of sweet that they're back together almost 20 years later.
Please all join me in a fervent prayer that 1.) she will marry my ex, because this is really the best possible scenario that I could imagine and 2.) all of you wind up with equally awesome gf/stepmom figures in your kid's life.
Now I'm off to get some stuff done and get ready for a night out with my boyfriend that doesn't involve paying a babysitter and coming home by 11. :)
ETA: Oh, and I forgot to mention the most important thing...DS was obviously happy to see her and comfortable around her. He was interacting with her in kind of the same way that he does with my boyfriend.
Edited by *MamaJen* - 3/26/11 at 2:17pm