just need to vent

[sa1121]

I am sick of being categorized by men as having "baby daddy drama" without them even getting to know me! You don't know my even a part of my situation and half of these "men" have no idea what we single moms go through. I have an ex that  is extremely unstable(no official place to live, etc) and he wants to take the kids every weekend...I have an upcoming child support(he hasn't been paying )/visitation hearing that I am dreading. I wish he would just completely disappear out of their lives! He acts as though they are "an object"  to use at his leisure....these are your kids idiot! On the other hand, I am tired of struggling to pay for their school by myself....I wish he was more stable but I don't trust him with them ughh....unfortunately for the law I have no choice but to let him be a part of their lives....I just needed to vent. I am just frusturated. I thank god for my very supportive family without them I dont know howd I continue!! Keep your head up to those ladies who are doing it alone! :)))