I'm getting really frustrated with the diaper thing, in part because we're battling a steady rash, and have been for 6 mos now (he's 18 mos). If he sits in a poopie diaper for even a few minutes (literally, just 2 or 3 minutes), his butt winds up raw and weeping. But he will only sometimes give any clues he's pooping. But I know he poops first thing in the morning, within minutes of waking up, so I try putting him on the potty - I have a Baby Bjorn (not the little one, the bigger one - we had to get rid of the little one, it was too short for him), and a ring on the toilet. Doesn't matter which one I try, he starts arching his back and screaming the moment he realizes what I'm doing. If I take his dipe off and I catch a stiffy, he will actually hold it until I get his dipe back on now. And the pee is another matter entirely, since he out-soaks every diaper we own (to the point of it running down his legs and filling his shoes). I just don't know what to do at this point.
Anybody deal with this and have some brilliant ideas for me? He'll happily sit on his potty while fully dressed, but the second that dipe comes off he won't have anything to do with it.