I realized I needed some help here. My son has been pretty good about trying different foods, he loves to feed himself when it comes to finger foods but he doesn't show much interest in using his spoon. Most of the times he will pick up the plate and spoon and give to me so that I will feed him. I guess my question is when he refuses to eat grown up food, should I just leave it at that or go ahead and mush it since 90% of the times that means he will finish all his food. I'm kinda puzzled here. I want him to start eating more grown up foods but on the other hand if mushed foods means more proper nutrition I feel like I should stick to it. Hmm..Opinions or suggestions please?