Happy belated birthday, Amy May! Sounds like it was a wonderful day.
Saamy, that sounds hard and stressful. I hope you can work things out in a way that feels right to you.
Everyone: new spotlight thread is up for the week. I come early in the list, so I am in this one, and am hoping that I don't have to awkwardly answer too many of my own questions. Come and ask a question or two, and learn more about our fellow DDC members!