What helped you win?
There's no provable abuse by my children's father, but they are way better off with me for all sorts of reasons. I'd like to leave, but I live in a state that generally awards split custody. That wouldn't be safe for my kids so I'm trying to figure out how I can get full custody. I think visitation days would be OK/safe, and overnights when they are older, but not the full week splits that tend to happen in my state.
Any advice or experience to share?