Libi-what? If I say to myself "We will be having sex tonight and it will be fun" and then sit and read naughty magazines for 30 minutes, I can be entreated to enjoy myself. But sex drive of its own motivation? Ha! I just want to talk about kitchen cabinets and work and taxes and infant daycares that I have toured, and sex is about bazillionth on my to-do list. We're planning some for tomorrow night; that should be enough time to consider getting motivated. SO lame. Plus, even though I like my pregnant body, it's impossibly to feel alluring while wearing extra-strength compression stockings to keep my bulgy veins hidden and not uncomfortable.
This is our last baby, so I'm trying to really enjoy and focus on the stuff about pregnancy that I love, like feeling all the weird movements and the hiccups and stuff. That being said, it's hard not to wish it was over already ... the leg cramps and being constantly out-of-breath are killing me, and the absolutely ZERO lack of libido is killing dh. Then again, even if I HAD some kind of drive, I fall asleep at the drop of a hat ... which somehow dh finds offensive? LOL