Rubelin, I've finally started listening to the webinars you sent me about magnetising your soulmate - wow! I feel so inspired and excited to find my 'One'. I think this will really help b/c I won't be so tempted to stay with guys that clearly don't fit - I will weed them out earlier, b/c what's the point if my soulmate is out there? I had a real breakthrough a few nights ago, before I listened to the webinar in fact, when I suddenly could clearly see this guy moving towards me somewhere in the world, and sensed strongly for the first time that I am as right for him as he is for me, and he is looking for me as much as I am for him. It was like, wow! I really believe there is someone out there who is my perfect fit, and now that I think about it I do know a few couples like this - who just 'knew' they were right for each other, and felt totally devoted from the start. So it gives me hope.
I also had a great night out on Wed, went to a gig and to an afterparty on the beach with a girlfriend, was so much fun. And I feel proud of myself b/c although I was quite tipsy I didn't snog the nearest guy as I would've in the past - there were a few who were giving me the 'vibe' but I wasn't interested in any of them so I didn't go for it. I just don't feel as much like I need to prove myself attractive at the moment, or waste my time with these random guys. I've been hurting a bit over realising how much of a womaniser LCG really was, and how I allowed him to seduce me etc..I really think he would've respected me if I'd 'held out' longer than 3 dates ;) (he mentioned an ex making him wait 2 months, and he was clearly hooked on her). But bleh, the past is the past.
Zeta, the 4 man plan also doesnt seem quite right to me because I do very much know what i'm looking for, and its a very very n arrow pool of men that fit. So no point dating lots of other guys and compromising!But yes, the not investing in a man till you know he's the one is what i"ve taken from it too.
Oh and Rubelin, how was the psychic gathering - any nice men? I'm shocked to hear that being older than 38 is an obstacle in dating - I wonder why? That's a bit harsh. What's your upper age limit in terms of men?
Well I'm off on a women's camping weekend soon, can't wait! Be good for me to be completely out of male's orbit for a few days ;) (Well except for my son!)