I am just beginning to seriously plan for a UC. I'm 28 weeks pregnant and wanted a homebirth, but cannot find anyone to assist (CPMs are illegal here, and there are no CNMs that perform outside of a hospital here). I am under the care of a local OB for prenatal care. My choices appear to be hospital OB birth, or UC at home. There are midwives an hour to two hours away, but even if I chose to go that route, I still need to be prepared for UC due to my personal and family birth history (quick births).
So, can those of you who have experience with UC share your top three recommendations for books/sources of information which helped you prepare for UC? Also, if any of you had a DH/DP who was uncomfortable with or against UC, were you able to calm him down or get him on board for it? How?
Thank you in advance for any help.