Not sure if this helps but another approach is to find a flexible ped (and you wont' know this till you meet them) and start simply delaying vaxes indefinitely... I find that some who pretend to be friendly to this issue are in fact not or are willing to debate -- which I'm not interested in.
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There are some peds who will refuse to see you if you dont' vax. Take that as a blessing. I think most are kind of flexible.. I don't think you will ever find one who will always agree with you so as long as you dont' back down they will learn that you are not to be persuaded.
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I usually just say "we're not having vaccines today, maybe next time" and I did that for 2 years till the ped got really impatient and said 'are you EVER going to do it". Then I said, "I'm am not willing to discuss this right now really calmly and non challantly" because I noticed they started writing things in the medical report and I don't want a record of me deliberately delaying even tho I clearly am.