I figured you experienced mamas here in SN might know how to answer my question. My DD2 is four, and I am coming around to realizing that she needs help with her speech. She's got intelligibility issues-- I've heard she should be like 80% intelligible to other adults-- she's not. Every adult involved in her life has commented on it. I guess I've been in denial-- my other DD was a "late talker" who caught up all on her own, and I was expecting the same this time.
I've done EI-- DD1 was 18 months when she was evaluated. But I don't know who to reach out to, since DD2 is too old for EI. She's not in preschool, although she's enrolled to start in the fall. I hate to wait that long. My ped is no help-- she's a die-hard believer in preschool and daycare, and keeps just telling me there's nothing anybody can do if I won't "put her in a center."

Is there a resource similar to EI, for kids over 3? I'm in NJ, BTW.