She rarely calls & let's them down all the time. They have told me "mommy don't love us anymore" which completely breaks my heart.
In my eyes & heart they are my boys & I treat them as such. My SO says they are happier with me than they've ever been in their whole lives.
I told him I wasn't trying to replace their mommy but she honestly put me in that position, which I gladly accepted!
She didn't sign over her rights but she did sign the custody papers. She never once said she wanted or missed the boys, all she was concerned with was if she would have to pay cs. He agreed not to make her so we could insure the boys' safety. They were terrified she would take them & not bring them
back just to spite us.
We are all very happy that custody
Is finally official!
Edited by pinkmonkey - 4/9/11 at 11:35am