The two closest to you are probably Kim Cash (Mansfield/Storrs) and Nancy Farr (Andover, I think). They used to work as a pair (Kim apprenticed under Nancy) but now have their own practices. I used them both for both of my pregnancies/births in CT (my first was not born in CT). I love them both for different reasons.
There is also Joni Stone, she's wonderful as well, but she works out of the New Haven area. She will attend births anywhere in CT though.
As far as insurance goes, if you have a HMO you probably will wind up paying the CPM's fees totally out of pocket. If you have a PPO, there is a chance that you may get reimbursement at out-of-network rates after your deductible. The midwives will be able to answer the insurance questions for you better then I can, I'm sure. They know more about what insurance companies are more likely to reimburse.
Hope that helps. Good luck in your search!
Edited by clovergirl - 4/8/11 at 5:01pm