Anyone else just not "feeling it"??

[mommyinfl]

Just wondering, if you ever have months were you really think its your month for a BFP and months where your just not feeling it?? I am on cycle #3 TTC, and while i know that is not very long, something just tells me this isnt our month yet again . The last 2 months I didnt have a positive feeling either like I just "knew". Last cycle our timing was much better and I thought *maybe*, but this month I totally feel out already ,and im only 3 dpo. I am sure it has alot to do with our timing, which was only 0-2 and 0-4 . it just worked out that way, unfortunately, and while i know its still very possible to get pg this way and people do all the time, i feel like it wont happen for us. its funny cause when TTA, I would be totally freaked out that our timing would result in an unplanned pg. but now with TTC I feel like our timing wasnt good enough.

anyone else want to share? was your "feelings" right for you either way it turned out?

[OJazzy1]

You know.... I knew I was pregnant with my son but in all honesty now since we have been trying for so long and nothing I really don't have much to say about feeling things, haha, I think though that that is just my slight disallusionment speaking.

[mommyinfl]

Originally Posted by OJazzy1 

You know.... I knew I was pregnant with my son but in all honesty now since we have been trying for so long and nothing I really don't have much to say about feeling things, haha, I think though that that is just my slight disallusionment speaking.

I am sorry. How long have you been trying for now? and how long did it take you to get pg with your son?

Im 10 or 11 dpo today and feel out. just know deep down im not pg, not i just need to be brave enough to take that HPT and confirm my feelings.

[OJazzy1]

I have been trying for over a year and a half now. My son was a honeymoon baby so no "trying" involved!

[Hykue]

So, we tried for four months altogether, the first month I thought I was for sure, but I wasn't.  The second month I didn't think I was, although I was hopeful . . . and I was, although we lost that one a few days later.  The third month we "tried" (after TTA for a couple of months for better timing), I was so entirely sure I was pregnant, I just KNEW.  And I wasn't.  The fourth month, I just didn't think I was, I wasn't feeling it.  I had symptoms, but really nothing at all more than I usually did pre-AF.  And I was pregnant with my little sticky mammal that's in there right now.  So my experience is that when I think I'm pregnant, I'm not, and when I don't think I'm pregnant, I am.  I know others have the opposite experience, so I guess I just think that "feeling it" is a psychological process that is in no way related to the physiological process of actually getting pregnant, or at least not related in any clear way that includes feeling pregnant only when you are and vice versa.

[ValH]

I have the same experience as Hykue.  For twelve cycles, I was hopeful and SURE that this was the one that was going to stick.  Nope.  Finally, on the 13th cycle, I didn't feel it at all.  Of course, I didn't feel much of anything that cycle - I didn't feel like trying, temping, doing OPKs, I just didn't care (luckily, DH kept encouraging me).  In the TWW, I knew I was out - I was sick, a family member passed away, no way could all the stress be condusive for a sticky bean, right?  Wrong - I got my BFP in my least optomistic cycle ever. 

[Calycanth]

Yep, not "feeling it" at all here.  I'm 3 DPO today, so it'll be a while before I can confirm my hunch, but I'd be really surprised if I were pregnant.  

Mommyinfl, did you turn out to be right?  Or did you get a surprise BFP?