Congratulations! Â I've been vegan for 1 year and 4 months, and I don't think I will ever go back to a non-plant-based diet. Â I would start by giving yourself at least an hour of kid-free time at the supermarket armed with a list of foods you'd like to try. Â There are some great recipes in The Kind Diet- we use a lot of those recipes as our staples. The hardest part of the transition is learning which foods are vegan and which aren't. Â TJ's has a vegan sign that they use to indicate a plant-based food, and they have a list on their website of all their vegan foods if you wanted to print those out to bring with you. Â But be sure to buy: 1)beans beans beans, 2) gardein (most Morningstar Farms foods are NOT vegan), 3) soy or almond milk, 4) collard greens or some other leafy green, 5) vegan cookies. Â I love vegan chocolate chip cookies, 6) vegannaise. Â There's lots of other things, but I would steer clear of trying to fill the gaps in my diet with meat analogues right when you're starting. Â They can be awesome, but they can also be really bad. Â same for cheese- don't go crazy trying to find a good cheese substitute, because it just doesn't exist. Â daiya comes close, but I've learned to live without cheese and I only miss it occasionally.
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there are a lot of web resources as well- the post punk kitchen has some good recipes, the Seitan Bourgonoine (sp) that was on Martha Stewart last week is really, really tasty, and there are a lot of vegan blogs.
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Make sure you have snacks on hand so you don't end up eating non-vegan just because you're in a rush or don't have access to a vegan snack when you need it. Â After awhile you'll get used to having vegan snacks or waiting until you can have one, but for now just try to have a luna bar or Kind bar, or a bag of nuts and raisins in your bag for emergencies.
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Also, remember it's not an all or nothing deal. Â Every vegan meal you eat is a good meal. Â If you're in a situation where you can't eat a vegan meal, don't give up. Â Just pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and try again another time.
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Finally, it really helped me and my family for me to write up a set of ground rules- I'm American Indian, so one of my ground rules is that I will eat whatever is served to me if it's ceremonial food. Â I can't refuse food if I'm a guest in someone else's house during a ceremony, and that trumps vegan. Â I also made a deal with my husband that I wouldn't make a huge fuss out of getting vegan food at restaurants- life is too complicated to have to insist on a refund if my veggies were sauteed in butter. Â I do what I can NOT to be in that situation in the first place, but I have to be flexible. Â Now we mostly go to restaurants that have a vegan item explicitly listed on the menu, but sometimes I can't avoid it.
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Good luck!