ok mamas i'm wondering how/when you fit in sex and other fun things...especially for you moms doing in-arms, au natural (no paci, no swing, no bottle, etc.)...or for those who have a child like mine...
phoenix wakes up the moment i put him down. even in his sleep we sleep tummy to tummy (side lying) and the minute i get up, either i have to replace my body with my dh's or know that phoenix will be up in a few minutes.
now, in general i'm quite happy, i know this is natural behavior...he's only 6 weeks. but how are we to dtd? or how am i to get any bodywork done? i feel like a massage would be heaven...but i barely have 10 minutes...and that's only if dh has him in arms. i can't imagine how long it will be to have an hour free. he doesn't even like to lay on his back or tummy for longer than a minute or two.
do we forgo sex and massage for the next year? how long will it go on like this in your opinions? what do you do...since i've obviously chosen not to bottle feed or have swings, etc. do you just know this to shall pass or do you have ideas?