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post #21 of 50

I had my nt(1.7mm) scan a couple of days ago...measuremnts were good...crl(69.1mm) and bpd(21.3mm) meaured 13 weeks instead of 12...growing fast. hb was151.

 

My next midwife appt is Wed 20th.

 

I really should get dressed and get the kids ready for the playgroup Easter party.

 

My 19 mos dd old is running the living room giggling waving her hand behind her butt and saying I'm stinky....she just farted and thinks that it is hillarious....lol

post #22 of 50

OK, I am still not showing (I just look like I've been enjoying the Easter candy a little too much) but I pulled out my maternity clothes today and put on my favourite pair of maternity pants and OH MY GOODNESS THEY ARE SO COMFORTABLE. It's time. It may not look like it yet, but it's clearly time.

post #23 of 50

I wish I actually had some maternity clothes. I have a couple of pairs of fat pants from before I lost some weight. Right now they are still too big, but in a few weeks they will probably fit. We're not really in a good place money-wise at the moment, so I lack the funds to buy some regular maternity stuff. 

post #24 of 50

While not noticably showing, I've so been in maternity clothes all week.  I couldn't button any of my pants and the rubber band just wasn't cutting it either.  I'm so much more comfortable and look much less like I've been hitting the Cadberry's!  Before, I was coming to work in sweatpants.  My workplace is casual, but not THAT casual!

post #25 of 50
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Originally Posted by Snugglebugmom View Post

I wish I actually had some maternity clothes. I have a couple of pairs of fat pants from before I lost some weight. Right now they are still too big, but in a few weeks they will probably fit. We're not really in a good place money-wise at the moment, so I lack the funds to buy some regular maternity stuff. 


I really lucked out and got some great maternity clothes for freecycle...I can't afford them either :(
 

 

post #26 of 50

I've seen quite a few listings on Craigslist, too!

post #27 of 50

I bought one pair of jeans, and my mom sent me 2 new tops, but everything else I've gotten second-hand.  It has been really nice- I was daunted about the idea of having to pick out a new wardrobe, let alone the price of it... Now I have a ton of clothes- including more than I'll actually wear.  My cousin is also pregnant, so I'm going to have her over to do a maternity clothes swap.  I found the clothes on a local mom's group, as well as craigslist.  I've spent total about $300, and bought clothes from 5 different women, but now I absolutely have a TON of clothes. 

post #28 of 50

Names, shmames.  Bah.

We have a few that we're tossing around, but we can't seem to agree on anything.

I've used all my favourite names on characters in my books, so I can't use those.

We likely won't find out the sex, so will have to look at all kinds of names until the babe is born.

Sue ... Our dog is called Charlie, which is short for Charlotte, which is what I wanted to name E, but DP vetoed it because she knew a Charlotte who she didn't like. 

post #29 of 50

I got a pair of brand new liz lange maternity slacks (I needed something for church) at goodwill for $3.74!!!! I don't need anything else though as I have been pg so many times (and my dad loves to shop) so I have plenty of stuff. Although some of it is a bit outdated and I need to weed through it.

 

We really don't discuss names until the end as we never agree and when we have a few picked out that isn't typically what we name the baby anyways. We hope to find out the sex this time so that should make it a bit easier.

 

I have a quick hb check tomorrow with my m/w and I am a little nervouse but not like I was about last weeks appt. I will keep you ladies posted.

post #30 of 50
On heartbeats, joy.gif starling & ~pi!

On maternity clothes, it's getting a little ridiculous here. For things I am willing to wear in public I'm down to 1 pair of knit pants and 2 pairs of jeans with hair band and I'm really not a fan of the hair band trick. :/ Two more weeks 'til I'm back in the states, but I think I might have to go shopping before then.

And an etiquette question for you all: My SIL is pregnant and due next week and, as it happens, next week is when we will likely be ready to announce my pregnancy. Would it be better to wait a week or two after she gives birth? We're in no real hurry. Background: My SIL aren't very close. We don't argue or anything, we just don't have much in common. She is very mainstream and I'm, well, socially awkward sometimes. I have difficulty anticipating how she will react to things. For example, I sent her several homemade/rustic gifts before realizing she's not really into that sort of thing. I can't imagine caring about anyone else's pregnancy announcement when I am about to give birth; I'm just trying to be sensitive to my fellow preggo's feelings! WWYD?
post #31 of 50

So, after deciding to wear maternity pants last night, I was asked if I was pregnant. Because you just don't wear these type of pants otherwise. (I did not realize it was quite so obvious. But I was clambering on play equipment at a kid's birthday party and apparently the elastic waistband gave it away.) Sigh. So it's clearly time to start telling. We told DS last night (very fun) and he told my mom this morning on the phone.

 

Nicole, hoping for all the best for you.

 

capretta, my 2 cents: I wouldn't worry about telling now, but if you're worried, it's also reasonable to wait. Is this her first? IME, most women are a little more fussy about these things with their first. (No offense to first time mamas here, it just seems to be how it goes.) So if it's her first, I would be more likely to consider waiting. But really, I doubt it would matter.

post #32 of 50

We're going to my husband's grandma's house for Easter, like every year.  Cousin just had a baby a week and a half ago.  Easter will be baby's first outing.  Normally I'd be announcing our pregnancy at Easter, but not this day.  Not on her baby's day.  She gets this one.  I guess my advice is to take it as it comes - don't announce at a gathering for the new baby.  You'll find a good place, because you already care.  If you were a jerk you wouldn't be worrieda bout it. 


 

 

post #33 of 50
Thanks ~pi and Jane for your perspectives. This will be SIL's second. We're still abroad, so we won't be around for any family gatherings. Our "announcement" will consist of a few phone calls.
post #34 of 50

baby is doing well with a 150 hb!!!!!!

My mw will come next sat. too. This is probably the week in my pg where I lost Emeric so a bit nerve wracking.

I will at least sleep tonight. No promises for the rest of the week. :)

post #35 of 50

I never would have minded someone stealing my baby's 'thunder'. I always prefer to keep them to myself. ;) But, then again, my IL's loooove babies and I would rarely see mine when we were with them. Especially my first. If anything though, I bet the baby would steal YOUR thunder. lol

post #36 of 50
That thought had occurred to me too. Frankly, we wouldn't mind flying under the radar. DH suggested we announce my pregnancy when the sprog turns 18. lol.gif
post #37 of 50

Hooray, Nicole!!
 

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Originally Posted by capretta View Post
DH suggested we announce my pregnancy when the sprog turns 18. lol.gif


lol.gif If that's how you're feeling, I would definitely hold off. No chance of drama, then, and clearly no hardship to you.

 

ARGH. I made zucchini muffins with DS Saturday afternoon and had one after dinner Saturday night, meaning to bolus (give insulin with my pump) after about an hour so that the food had a chance to get going first. I've been finding that my insulin is hitting well before the food does these days, which is a) unusual, and b) unpleasant and dangerous. Nearly passing out half an hour after I eat on a regular basis is not my idea of a good time. And stacking boluses (giving a bolus for dinner and then a bolus for the muffin shortly afterward) is especially dangerous for me right now. So fine, I am adapting to the censored.gif pregnancy hormones and am finding ways to deal with this issue. Except when I don't follow through. I fell asleep with DS right after dinner and then woke up at 3 a.m. with high-ish sugars (nothing that I would be too bothered about during normal life -- this is nothing for a type 1 -- but in pregnancy, I don't want to be spending four hours hanging out at 10/180.) So I am now up in the middle of the night, babysitting my sugars for a few hours to make sure they come back in line without dropping too low. Thank goodness it was just one reasonably low-sugar muffin. Gah. I clearly need to experiment with extended or square wave boluses (programming the insulin to release steadily over a certain amount of time) instead of delayed ones (which I desperately wish were a programmed option, but sadly, no), and also need to find a better place to put my CGMS (continuous glucose monitoring system, a sensor I wear that measures my interstitial glucose every 5 minutes) at night so that it will actually wake me up when it starts buzzing.

post #38 of 50
~pi: Yikes! I thought the pump made everything automatic, but I guess it's not that simple. Pumps are still pretty new, right? Do you think delayed boluses are something that might come in later generations of the pump?
post #39 of 50

Common misconception. I always explain it to people that insulin pumps are sort of like a manual, external pancreas. You have to tell them what to do. They have no way to know what's going on in your body; they just deliver insulin as they are told to do so. To use a pump effectively, you need to know how your body reacts to all sorts of conditions and situations and program it accordingly. The advantage of the pump (over multiple daily injections) is that you can have a more flexible life and can really fine tune things for the way your body works, but it takes attention and effort. This is especially true during pregnancy. (Thanks, hormones.)

 

Closed loop systems (where you have both a pump and a sensor to know how the body is reacting, so the system can "think" for itself) are very much the holy grail of the technological approach. (Other people are still hoping/going for a cure, but personally, I think a closed loop system is a way more achievable goal, and one that I will more likely see in my lifetime.) There are a bunch of closed loop systems currently in early trials. Just hazarding a guess, I'd say they are probably a decade away from a marketable system.

 

I doubt they will add delayed boluses; they are not a common need and it would tough to get that type of feature past most national safety agencies (the FDA and the like.)

 

STILL babysitting sugars. Very annoyed with myself about this.

 

Oh, and pumps are relatively new, but not that new. They've been around since the late 70s, but the early versions were enormous and not very flexible. They really got going in the 90s and 00s.

post #40 of 50
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Originally Posted by saoirse2007 View Post

I had my nt(1.7mm) scan a couple of days ago...measuremnts were good...crl(69.1mm) and bpd(21.3mm) meaured 13 weeks instead of 12...growing fast. hb was151.

 

My next midwife appt is Wed 20th.

 

I really should get dressed and get the kids ready for the playgroup Easter party.

 

My 19 mos dd old is running the living room giggling waving her hand behind her butt and saying I'm stinky....she just farted and thinks that it is hillarious....lol



Oh yeah, did I mention that- I swear I saw a PENIS!!!!!

only time will tell...LOL

 

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