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post #1 of 11
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So I got a letter when we first started with the room moms name and phone number and the list of parties and to let them know if you'd like to help. There is a party on the 20th for Easter. I called three weeks ago asking to help and telling them to please let me know if there's anything I can do. They didn't know and told me they would get back to me. I got a letter today (everyone did) about how they have decided to do happy meals because it worked so well last time (I guess they did this before for another party) and to please let them know if you prefer your child have apples . I don't understand why they wouldn't just get the kids apples. I also don't understand why they are getting happy meals. The handbook talked about sending in a healthy lunch, I get that it is a party, but if you're going to be the room mom and be lazy about the party, atleast feed all of the kids apples, not make it something you need to request. I was looking forward to helping but there's nothing to do! She asked for each child to bring in 7.00 for the food and a craft.

post #2 of 11

You still should be able to go and help with the craft.

 

Rather than make it into an issue, IMO, you should just try to influence the next party. Go to the party and get to know the teachers and the other room moms. Then, for the next party, you can suggest the class do something different than happy meals this time - and volunteer to put it together, organize the sign up sheet, cost per student, etc. The other organizers will probably be happy for a break, and, you will get to have more influence on the class parties.

 

 

post #3 of 11

Wow I am completely shocked that a preschool is getting Happy meals for a party. That is disgusting grossedout.gif I would have a huge problem with feeding my child that poison. Anyway I seriously would do up a nice fruit or veggie tray and bring it in for the party. Wow for 7 bucks per child you could have some really nice decent food for the kids. I don't understand the room mother title, but for the next party maybe instead of asking what you could do you could suggest that you could help organize a pot luck. This is what we do at my son's preschool for the 2 parties a year they have (winter party and end of year party) parents sign up under specific headings (appetizer, main, sandwiches, dessert, drinks) to bring a family sized amount. It works out really great as there are some parents who bring yummy healthy homemade foods and some that go the easy rote and bring some timbits, store made cookies, etc. the day of the party however there are many healthy choices to make that DS hardly notices the crappy food :)

 

Anyway I feel for you and I am sorry that your preschool is serving happy meals (I would have to bring something else for DS anyway as he will not touch McDonald's food) We were in a hurry one day and stopped as there was no where else to stop and DS took one bite of his burger and spit it out, he wouldn't even eat the apples all he would consume was the milk. I am also sorry that they are not utilizing their resources effectively (parents that want to help)

post #4 of 11

I am the Executive Director at my DD's preschool and OMG I cannot believe that - 1 - no one took you on your offer to help! -2- that they are doing Happy meals for a school party! that is completely ABSURD. For the record i do let my kids get a Happy Meal every once in a while BUT - IMO I pay good money for my child to go here, even with an invested stake in the school to begin with, and I want something that is healthy and nutritious for my child at school just as she would get at home. I do think you should take K's advice tho about the next event. The more you put yourself out there the more of a positive impact you can make! Good Luck!

post #5 of 11

A Happy Meal...from McDonalds?  At School?!

 

I think I'd be keeping my kid home that day.

 

What the ever living what?!

 

Not only is the food at McDonalds horribly bad for you...the marketing that goes along with it...oh ick ick ick!

 

I would write a letter back saying that there must be a thousand small businesses that would likely be happy to make healthy boxed lunches for the kids, but that a happy meal is an unacceptable option, and therefore I'd be opting out of Pre-school that day, and anyone who wanted to join you on the playground for a healthy lunch and an egg hunt with their kids was welcome.

 

REVOLT, I say, REVOLT! lol.gif

post #6 of 11

My kid would be served a Happy Meal in preschool when hell freezes over. Seriously. I would be livid. Unacceptable, regardless of type of program. The food is junk, the marketing is evil, and the worst, worst party is that it associates that vile stuff with parties and special occasions.

 

Someone is being awfully lazy if that is the best they can imagine AND they are disregarding offers of assistance.

post #7 of 11

My child would be staying home that day. NOT acceptable. And I am generally laid back, but not about this.

post #8 of 11

I've never heard of happy meals at school!  Wow.  I wouldn't send my kids that day if I had that option.  If I had to send them, I would have to send a lunch, I think.  I've never taken my kids to McDonald's, and I would not be ok with them eating chicken or a burger from there.  I know it's just one day, but still...just not ok with me.

 

What did you decide to do?

post #9 of 11

EXACTLY. WHAT. SHE. SAID. What the HELL are they thinking???????
 

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Originally Posted by hakeber View Post

A Happy Meal...from McDonalds?  At School?!

 

I think I'd be keeping my kid home that day.

 

What the ever living what?!

 

Not only is the food at McDonalds horribly bad for you...the marketing that goes along with it...oh ick ick ick!

 

I would write a letter back saying that there must be a thousand small businesses that would likely be happy to make healthy boxed lunches for the kids, but that a happy meal is an unacceptable option, and therefore I'd be opting out of Pre-school that day, and anyone who wanted to join you on the playground for a healthy lunch and an egg hunt with their kids was welcome.

 

REVOLT, I say, REVOLT! lol.gif



 

post #10 of 11

Gosh, what a totally not special party.  Why even bother if you're not really going to, you know, bother?

 

Also, how are APPLES a party alternative to a MEAL?  Apples are fine and great but my daughter eats one pretty much every day.  That's not a party and it's not a meal. She would be starving.

 

I don't know what to do other than talk to the room mom about whatever party is coming up next and let her know you'd be happy to help for the next party as clearly there was an overwhelming lack of help for this one, otherwise...why the Happy Meals?

post #11 of 11
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Originally Posted by NiteNicole View Post

Gosh, what a totally not special party.  Why even bother if you're not really going to, you know, bother?

 

Also, how are APPLES a party alternative to a MEAL?  Apples are fine and great but my daughter eats one pretty much every day.  That's not a party and it's not a meal. She would be starving.

 

We'd be pretty unhappy with a Happy Meal at a school party--though, we aren't as opposed to fast food as some folks are--but, the question is likely "do you want your kid to have apples instead of french fries?" not "do you want your kid to have apples instead of lunch?"

 

I think I would probably go along with it this time, but in the days immediately following the party, I would approach the room mom and the teacher and offer to plan the next party. One Happy Meal isn't the end of the world, or even healthy eating, and won't permanently associate happy meals with parties in your child's mind.
 

 

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