Geez, when I started out here in my pre-pregancy days, I could not have forseen coming back with THIS question.
I'm a single mom now, and have been for about two years, and I just met someone. I like him. He's highly intelligent and makes me laugh and is ethical. Ethical enough to tell me before we ever even got close to each other that he's dealing with genital warts.
I dealt with this myself when I was 20, and after that even had some cervical dysplasia, which was taken care of and has not returned. HPV has not been an issue in my adult life since all that happened almost 20 years ago.
I'm trying to make sense of these Gardasil articles. My daughter is 5 and almost completely unvaxed. Even though I've protected my daughter from vaccines, some of these Gardasil links rub me the wrong way; they strike me as more sensational than factual. I feel like I'm having trouble getting to the bottom of things.
What would you do if you were me? Break things off with him before we get to the point that we love each other and would like to have sex? Get vaccinated?
Life is complicated.